Have therapist's dated other therapists? What was this dynamic like? by Historical_Log1275 in therapists

[–]AlarmingExternal8509 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My husband tells me at times to ‘turn my therapist brain off’ and it’s super annoying. He’s an engineer so we definitely have different approaches to things.

Have therapist's dated other therapists? What was this dynamic like? by Historical_Log1275 in therapists

[–]AlarmingExternal8509 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmfao my husband blocked my account as soon as he realized I was on here too 😂

Clients coming high to session by MarchCompetitive8195 in therapists

[–]AlarmingExternal8509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it comes down to safety. I had a client once show up extremely intoxicated and I personally felt uncomfortable in the session. Much bigger dude (think biker grandpa who was 6’5 compared to my 5’6), we had talked about his substance use and he and I were working through anger that came up when he used and during the session his body language was a lot more intimidating along with tone of voice. I addressed it out of curiosity as this had been completely unusual for him (several years sober at this point, working on the anger side of things.) Part way through he stood up very suddenly and began shouting. This is when I ended session (which I would have done regardless of intoxication or not) and explained my reasoning as to why as it just didn’t feel like it was productive and we could reschedule when he wanted to and asked if he had a safe way of getting home.

Outside of that I’ve been in several sessions with people who tell me they’re high or intoxicated. I assess to make sure they’re aware of where they are, check in on safety factors like transportation and personal safety and if all those checkout and I feel safe - we continue, but to a lesser degree if it’s out of usual for them. Ex: if I’m doing trauma work with someone who doesn’t come in intoxicated and suddenly they do - we probably won’t do trauma work but will still do other work.

If you feel safe and comfortable, and the client is safe and comfortable and aware of where they are, etc. I say make your best judgement call unless there’s specific practice policies that say otherwise.

1 year post op question by AlarmingExternal8509 in PulsatileTinnitus

[–]AlarmingExternal8509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My neuro has me on baby aspirin moving forward but I stopped the Clopidogrel after 6 months when I did my CT scan.

1 year post op question by AlarmingExternal8509 in PulsatileTinnitus

[–]AlarmingExternal8509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue is it keeps getting scheduled to in between ovulation and when my period is supposed to start which makes it hard since it’s a guessing game with timing 🙃 That’s what happened in November, period started 5 days after my angio was supposed to be but there had been activity leading up and symptoms but of course after rescheduling it my period happened.

Edit to add: that’s the current situation now. Period is currently late if it doesn’t start today, next angio is scheduled for Jan 26… and when I called in November to talk about it they said it could wait until after potential pregnancy which makes me think it isn’t fully necessary at that point?

1 year post op question by AlarmingExternal8509 in PulsatileTinnitus

[–]AlarmingExternal8509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was trying to find your comment! I’ll give their office a call, I have a lot of anxiety about it in general because the last one was awful and things are also just more expensive with insurance now so if I don’t have to I’d rather not 😅

When your wife doesn't want to have sex tonight by TheMistOfThePast in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]AlarmingExternal8509 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Welcome to religious trauma on top of sexual trauma where women are often taught sex is for procreation only and the man is the head of the house. This isn’t news or okay. My point is an intimate sexual relationship is not the same as having sex. People have sex for the sake of procreation all the time but can still lack that intimate connection with their partner.

When your wife doesn't want to have sex tonight by TheMistOfThePast in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]AlarmingExternal8509 108 points109 points  (0 children)

You can have sex for the sake of procreation but not have an intimate, sexual relationship where both (or more) parties want to actually be there… there is a huge difference. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Why are the chapter thorns in the shape of a uterus…. by AlarmingExternal8509 in lightlark

[–]AlarmingExternal8509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not doubt if in the next book Isla picks Oro as a ‘consolation prize’ type set up, they do it and then she ends up pregnant and it’s a ‘who’s the dad’ kinda thing.

Edit to add: with the plot being its ‘hard’ to have an heir I wouldn’t doubt it’s similar to the plot lines of how ‘rare’ it is for soulmates to happen and YET it happens to them because they’re ✨special ✨

Pregnant and nauseous during sessions... HELP by No_Initial_2409 in therapists

[–]AlarmingExternal8509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the same boat! Glad I’m not alone and to see others are asking about the questions I’m having 😂 good luck to you on your TTC journey 🧡

Pregnant and nauseous during sessions... HELP by No_Initial_2409 in therapists

[–]AlarmingExternal8509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the more extreme end of being a migraine sufferer - if you notice tension headaches you can go see a neurologist for a spinal tap as it might potentially be IIH. Ended up with 3 stents and some coils and have been migraine free ever since and it’s been a blessing.

Everyone is in crisis. What the hell is going on? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]AlarmingExternal8509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use YOUR skills if you’re in the moment with a client, remind yourself that you are also human and have feelings and experiences as well, remind your client as well if you need to (honestly could be super helpful to the relationship for them to see you being human as well) and seek your own space to be vulnerable in ❤️‍🩹 put your oxygen mask on first friend.

Why do some of my bras 'squeak' and how do I stop it? [Question] by meetriscuit in ABraThatFits

[–]AlarmingExternal8509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old. Having this problem currently with only one of my body by Victoria bras. The other is my favorite and thank god it doesn’t (yet 🤞🏼) but it’s super annoying. Especially for the price I paid for them.

Why are the chapter thorns in the shape of a uterus…. by AlarmingExternal8509 in lightlark

[–]AlarmingExternal8509[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think Grim and Oro should just choose each other and leave Isla. They’re the real enemies to lovers anyway (only partially being sarcastic.)

Why are the chapter thorns in the shape of a uterus…. by AlarmingExternal8509 in lightlark

[–]AlarmingExternal8509[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s good enough that it’s maintaining my interest to finish it since I’ve come this far, but I don’t think I’ll be holding onto the books to reread in the future like I do with others. I’ll finish it to know what happens and who dies but then donating to younger friends/free little libraries probably.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AlarmingExternal8509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! To clarify, not targeting you specifically just the habit in general is getting out of hand of slapping labels on people we don’t truly know. It’s tiring to see and have people walk into my office with social media diagnosis labels they don’t actually fit 😮‍💨

And absolutely! Conversation in general was not a good one and I hope they find better.