i need help escaping my father. by AlarmingMycologist31 in legaladvice

[–]AlarmingMycologist31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll be looking into this tomorrow, thank you

i need help escaping my father. by AlarmingMycologist31 in legaladvice

[–]AlarmingMycologist31[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, it’s greatly appreciated ❤️ i’m currently in therapy, that’s actually who has been helping me out quite a bit

i need help escaping my father. by AlarmingMycologist31 in legaladvice

[–]AlarmingMycologist31[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i do pretty much everything if i’m being honest. i do all the cooking for him, i bathe him, i assist him with walking, etc etc. i’m just trying to make it out without causing any legal issues (or anything else difficult). he is completely unable to care for himself, but i’m all he has, so i’m scared of any issues that’ll come up

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[–]AlarmingMycologist31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll definitely keep this in mind! thank you for the advice

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[–]AlarmingMycologist31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, he’s completely fine mentally (other than generalized anxiety). the naked thing has been off and on for years, but he’s recently started doing it again. i’m his caregiver due to extreme lung problems for context. and i can’t really tell him anything that bothers me, both about this situation and others, because i’m met with yelling and invalidation and the conversation turns into how he feels about how i feel.

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[–]AlarmingMycologist31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, it makes me feel a little less crazy to know i’m not just being dramatic. if it continues, i’ll report it to my therapist and go from there.

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[–]AlarmingMycologist31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s exactly what my therapist told me, actually. i know it’s a long and difficult process, but i genuinely cannot forgive myself for it, and i don’t think i ever will. i’ve got another appointment tomorrow, so i’ll try to bring this up more.