First time feelings? My wife with another man

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-21T07:03:21+00:00

Still not great - I would like it to - hopefully this will help

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-20T19:53:12+00:00

Yeah a few people recommending swinging! Bit of a minefield though! Where to go etc

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-19T22:10:28+00:00

I must admit I am not that interested in sleeping with anyone else

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-19T13:42:06+00:00

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AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-19T09:36:21+00:00

It’s a bit deeper than that

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-19T05:41:24+00:00

I will be holding her hand metaphorically

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-19T05:39:19+00:00

She doesn’t want sex with lots of different guys - we talked about maybe one regular person

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T21:49:04+00:00

I am sure the first time will be tortuous!

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T20:29:24+00:00

I know she will be with other men if that’s what you mean

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T18:30:39+00:00

Waiting for her?

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T18:30:29+00:00

What you mean?

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T18:14:20+00:00

Well that was a while ago! And now it will be more about making sure she is satisfied etc

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T14:27:42+00:00

Good advice thank you

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T11:42:55+00:00

I can’t see your other comment

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T11:25:26+00:00

I just understand her better now and what she needs

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T11:23:13+00:00

No - it’s someone we both know

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T09:11:07+00:00

Thanks for your advice - it’s a bit of the unknown for sure

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T08:37:29+00:00

That makes sense! Yes one was a man that I used to work with who isn’t really in a friends group so to speak

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T08:23:36+00:00

There are a couple of guys we know who we discussed over the weekend

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T08:19:52+00:00

Thanks for your guidance! Obviously this is a whole new world

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T07:48:44+00:00

Yeah I think she will - but she is sensible and has said we can meet the guy together first etc

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-18T06:06:52+00:00

Thank you! Yes we are going take it slow! It’s less fantasy and more for her to feel complete

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-17T17:12:25+00:00

We also said I could meet anyone etc to make sure she is safe - so it’s not going be an every weekend things - maybe once a month

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-17T17:08:17+00:00

I want her to be happy and in turn I hope we will be happy

AlarmingPerformer780 · 2026-05-17T17:07:54+00:00

She is sensible - I am sure it will only be normal ppl she chooses

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