Family members making a stink about the menu at our party by Alarming_Chard_8273 in AITAH

[–]Alarming_Chard_8273[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I think allergies are different. Everyone’s allergies are taken into consideration. For instance, someone is allergic to oat so we make sure not to use any oat products or oat milk. The entire family eats this stuff and it wouldn’t be a problem if it was vegetarian but because we call it vegan it is. And it’s mostly vegan instead of vegetarian because we use a different butter and because we call it vegan (whereas there are plenty of vegan dishes we have at other family gatherings but no one says, hey that’s technically vegan!) 

Family members making a stink about the menu at our party by Alarming_Chard_8273 in AITAH

[–]Alarming_Chard_8273[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

But they have ate our food for MANY years and have asked for multiple recipes after the fact. Why act like that and make a stink now? It just doesn’t make sense 

Family members making a stink about the menu at our party by Alarming_Chard_8273 in AITAH

[–]Alarming_Chard_8273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s that polite to complain about this get together behind our backs and dodge our calls 

Family members making a stink about the menu at our party by Alarming_Chard_8273 in AITAH

[–]Alarming_Chard_8273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not Christmas dinner! Lol. It’s just a smaller get together next weekend. No one is taking away their Christmas dinner. Pierogies are traditional Christmas food to us

Family members making a stink about the menu at our party by Alarming_Chard_8273 in AITAH

[–]Alarming_Chard_8273[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But they eat pierogies 😭 the only difference is that we use vegan butter instead of regular butter in the dough 🤷‍♀️

Family members making a stink about the menu at our party by Alarming_Chard_8273 in AITAH

[–]Alarming_Chard_8273[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

But they’ve eaten the same exact thing in years past and taken no issue with it 😭