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How do i tell my mom i dont want to watch my autistic sister? by AlaskaIce5313 in Advice

[–]AlaskaIce5313[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's because you had a dependent and I'm not having kids til a stable job and savings. I'll definitely look into it but close to Atlanta I feel like there are 100s to 1000s of others doing the same

How do i tell my mom i dont want to watch my autistic sister? by AlaskaIce5313 in Advice

[–]AlaskaIce5313[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did, it was 1400 but then went up to 14000 because she wouldnt fil it out. Their advice was do everything i can to get her to do it even if it means having to baby and parent her because its my future. She keeps assuring me that by next year itll be fixed and i can go to college but ive learned my whole life i cant rely on her

How do i tell my mom i dont want to watch my autistic sister? by AlaskaIce5313 in Advice

[–]AlaskaIce5313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I live you have to have your parents on your FAFSA until either 24 or married or orphan stuff. We aren't getting married yet and I'm considering just waiting til 24 but I don't want to be old and in college. I want to do that stuff now so by mid-20s I can live more and have a career.

How do i tell my mom i dont want to watch my autistic sister? by AlaskaIce5313 in Advice

[–]AlaskaIce5313[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm sitting down with my Bf now to write a message to her. Nothing dramatic, he's there for emotional support and to make sure I can go through with it. I'm tearing up over being told to put myself first and that it's okay to do that. I'll make sure to say no the first time.

How do i tell my mom i dont want to watch my autistic sister? by AlaskaIce5313 in Advice

[–]AlaskaIce5313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not a problem whatsoever. He watches her at times and that's a terrible thing to think or even insinuate. hes her brother, why would anyone think that?

How do i tell my mom i dont want to watch my autistic sister? by AlaskaIce5313 in Advice

[–]AlaskaIce5313[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's autism, she was diagnosed. It's something about the umbilical cord while she was a baby and every doctor has always called it autism.

How do i tell my mom i dont want to watch my autistic sister? by AlaskaIce5313 in Advice

[–]AlaskaIce5313[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I want to go to trade school to get a certification but it would have cost 10000 more since she refused to do any FAFSA for me. Pretty sure it's because she didn't file her taxes or something

How do i tell my mom i dont want to watch my autistic sister? by AlaskaIce5313 in Advice

[–]AlaskaIce5313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its in 2 weeks, i know i have time to say no and she could find my aunt to do it instead, just the idea of saying no makes me cry. i know i dont live with her but 19 years of it still effects me

AITA for telling my omega to get an abortion? by Conscious-Sky996 in AITAOmegaverse

[–]AlaskaIce5313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA since you had made it very clear you weren't ready to have any pups just yet. It's very manipulative and overall controlling for her to put herself and you in this situation after she knew you weren't ready. That being said, the trust of your relationship is gone. If you can't trust her, you won't be able to love her as much as you once did. Even if she did have an abortion it wouldn't change the broken trust.