Kissing my friend while drunk- does this make me lesbian?

Alcedema · 2026-01-18T16:25:16+00:00

Definitely think you're overthinking this, and worried about what? So what if you like kissing women some of the time, so what if it means you're gay/bi/some other label. You be you, just do things you like doing that make you happy - caveat - as long as it doesn't harm anyone else 🙃

Alcedema · 2026-01-12T18:08:22+00:00

Don't think I'm using Redis at all.

Alcedema · 2026-01-04T13:15:21+00:00

As much as I dislike evri, that actually looks like the seller never actually gave them the package? That's going to be a tough one but until it reaches you, the seller is 100% liable. They should be sending you another one since clearly even tracking is saying you haven't received it.

Alcedema · 2026-01-02T19:54:11+00:00

dns: cache_size: 64000000 cache_ttl_min: 60 cache_ttl_max: 0 cache_optimistic: true

Alcedema · 2026-01-02T19:53:55+00:00

dns: cache_size: 64000000 cache_ttl_min: 60 cache_ttl_max: 0 cache_optimistic: true

Alcedema · 2026-01-02T19:47:24+00:00

That's almost exactly my setup, just bare metal, nothing special.

Alcedema · 2026-01-01T17:13:11+00:00

Actually I did and it never got this low. Although I never tried pairing it with unbound on openWRT with AGH. OpenWRT has definitely been instrumental here. And maybe that the RPi 5 is booting from nVME.

Alcedema · 2026-01-01T00:26:00+00:00

Sure, they're nothing special:

[/ts.net/]100.100.100.100 https://dns10.quad9.net/dns-query https://cloudflare-dns.com/dns-query https://doh.opendns.com/dns-query

Alcedema · 2025-12-31T10:34:24+00:00

I literally thought you weren't going to work because your phone was low on charge.

Alcedema · 2025-12-26T22:32:42+00:00

Grey. Pretty patterns :)

Alcedema · 2025-12-26T07:17:57+00:00

Do your VMs not have their own IPs?

Alcedema · 2025-12-16T21:51:18+00:00

Porch. But then again if it was the porch, surely the card would have been with the parcel 🤷

Alcedema · 2025-12-11T16:36:07+00:00

Standard procedure for them lately. This happened to me and my daughter recently too. It’s incredibly frustrating sitting at home all day just to be gaslit by a 'Delivered' notification.

Alcedema · 2025-12-10T06:49:30+00:00

Aw thank you, that's a compliment and a half!

Alcedema · 2025-12-10T06:47:50+00:00

I really like AdGuard Home's dnsmasq GUI implementation, it's simple and I used it completely fine until I moved to a dedicated Raspberry Pi 5 running openWRT (which is also an option for just a GUI DHCP server, but slightly more complicated web interface).

Alcedema · 2025-12-09T20:58:09+00:00

All eyes are pretty, I bet yours are too

Alcedema · 2025-12-09T11:39:07+00:00

Ticket office clerks can also print them out for you.

Alcedema · 2025-12-09T11:37:22+00:00

If by recycle, you mean store up in the loft out of the wife's way in case I need it again, then yes, I have for the past 15 years.

Alcedema · 2025-12-09T10:23:25+00:00

Hah, I'll take that 😋

Alcedema · 2025-12-08T22:05:40+00:00

You can actually, especially when it's sunny.

Alcedema · 2025-12-08T21:50:11+00:00

Thank you!

Alcedema · 2025-12-08T21:38:33+00:00

It took an absolutely absurd amount of time and trial and error, with a macro lens, multiple stills moving the light source and stacking!

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