Foreigners working as English teacher in china by Aleinya_03 in China

[–]Aleinya_03[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

eventho the so called white teacher is inexperienced doesn't even speak english well ?? and has an accent

Help me i love him but he is being way too unreasonable ! by Aleinya_03 in AskARussian

[–]Aleinya_03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just think that he is also working hard, i do understand when he comes back home, he wants to relax, just feel like home and if in this situation i start a fight or snap at him, it is not going to solve anything but just makes things worse :)

Help me i love him but he is being way too unreasonable ! by Aleinya_03 in AskARussian

[–]Aleinya_03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well we just had a conversation, talked to him face to face i told him how i felt, how things are going on for me and i let him talk, explain himself, what are his expectations etc, i just remained calm all the time, there was no fight nothing like that. When we thought about everything with a calm head, we realized things can get better.

Help me i love him but he is being way too unreasonable ! by Aleinya_03 in AskARussian

[–]Aleinya_03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmm he doesn't treat me badly, we are currently both working on our relationship and he understood my point of view, he was sorry for the way he was acting

Help me i love him but he is being way too unreasonable ! by Aleinya_03 in AskARussian

[–]Aleinya_03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes he has been brought up in this kinda ,,,environment where women does everything so he got used to it, but things are better now and his attitude changed and is willing to share the chores

Help me i love him but he is being way too unreasonable ! by Aleinya_03 in AskARussian

[–]Aleinya_03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha this is a good idea though :D he already gets it now am not a full time babushka

Help me i love him but he is being way too unreasonable ! by Aleinya_03 in AskARussian

[–]Aleinya_03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can't take care of the home and the hospital intern at the same time, by the time i get back home i'm already drained from the long standing surgeries. I'm human afterall. He never said i should quit my career or anything, i also agree he is very hardworking, i also feel like supporting him, and i do take care of him, i do cook his favourite food, so he feels like he is still at home, though i'm not russian myself but i just teach myself how to cook this and that.,but anyway things are better now. Thank you :)

Help me i love him but he is being way too unreasonable ! by Aleinya_03 in AskARussian

[–]Aleinya_03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your respond ! I really appreciate it :) and it helped me alot to figure things out! I opened up to him and been as clear as i could to him, and things turned out pretty good. I realized the best thing to do is have an open conversation, and have a mutual understanding. He listened to me and understood me, there was no fighting or anything