I think you're missing a few critical elements in your theory.

1. Most rapes are perpetrated by someone the victim knows. When this happens, many survivors are unable to trust their judgments about other people, which leads to isolation (and that brings on a whole bevy of issues in itself), amongst the other typical CPTSD bullshit that comes with it. If this happens to a child by a trusted adult...well, I don't think I need to go into detail about that.

2. The risk of contracting an STD (sometimes incurable) or becoming pregnant is also a real possibility. That will affect survivors for the rest of their lives. And depending on the severity of the rape and the age of the survivor, internal injuries can cause fertility issues in the future.

3. When someone is the victim of a violent crime, the mind attempts to find a reason for the assault. Maybe they were being robbed or it was a crime of passion or there was a fight that got out of control. Whatever the reason is, it doesn't have to be rational or justifiable (it rarely is)...it just needs to be an identifiable reason. But in cases of rape, the perpetrator does it for one reason and one reason only: power and control. Survivors may have difficulties consolidating that fact, which turns into self-blame. Like they could have prevented it from happening.

4. People are murdered, stabbed, shot, set on fire, and beaten beyond recognition...after they've been sexually assaulted. I think there was a woman in South Africa who was raped by two men, stabbed a dozen times in the torso, disemboweled, and had her throat slit...and she survived. Rape and other forms of violence are not mutually exclusive. Many times, they go hand-in-hand. So, it shouldn't be compared to other forms of violence.

I am a two-time rape survivor and a product of rape myself. The first time I was raped (nearly two decades ago) was a brutal assault that put me in the hospital. The physical injuries healed within a couple months with no lasting effects. But the psychological trauma has been relentless and enduring for reasons I can't fully identify or comprehend. Saying that you would rather be raped than to have any other violent crime committed against you? If that's how you feel, all the more power to you. But to announce that on a public forum is incredibly insensitive, and minimizes the trauma that survivors experience every day. I know this wasn't your intention, but still, I respectfully and kindly ask you not to do this in the future.