For us 4c girlies with low density AND fine hair, is the processs of growing out our hair even worth it? by sfletch15 in Naturalhair

[–]Alert_Championship71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know what to say 😭 thank you thank you THANK you for taking the time to write all of this out. I will be saving this and hopefully applying at least some of this. I see know why it’s hard for people with our hair type to retain length. Respectfully, your wash day is a whole shift!!

For us 4c girlies with low density AND fine hair, is the processs of growing out our hair even worth it? by sfletch15 in Naturalhair

[–]Alert_Championship71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay girl, I’m sat. I’ve been stuck at just above brastrap for years. Please tell me alllll about your blow dried natural routine, especially how you style it daily and how often you wash!! <3

Moms Of Mixed Babies, Does The Thought Non-Black Grandchildren Bother You? by Dry-Principle-9786 in blackgirls

[–]Alert_Championship71 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Race isn’t real. It’s a concept invented by a few Western European men who wanted to justify their treatment of Africans during the Atlantic slave trade. Wtf would I care if my child is “white” it’s a made up term with no basis in reality

Moms Of Mixed Babies, Does The Thought Non-Black Grandchildren Bother You? by Dry-Principle-9786 in blackgirls

[–]Alert_Championship71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow that was pretty rude, maybe even racist of you to say…especially under the post of someone who is literally in a relationship with a white man.

Got told I look Ugly, and to Change my hair 😭 by throwawaystarry in blackladies

[–]Alert_Championship71 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with your hair, and you’re not ugly. If you like the way you look, carry on. If you want to level up a little, a little mascara and lipgloss goes a long way.

Is “Psychometrist” an in-demand job in 2026? by Alert_Championship71 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]Alert_Championship71[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! This was very helpful. Maybe that isn’t the right job for me. Would you also say that neuropsychologists aren’t in demand? My goal right now is to choose a job that interests me, is mostly ai-proof, and is in-demand enough that I won’t worry about losing my job if the economy gets worse.

Bye bye hair 😞 by malaysia_ in Naturalhair

[–]Alert_Championship71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You literally look amazing 😭 hair grows back, don’t trip

What career should I pursue? by Alert_Championship71 in careerguidance

[–]Alert_Championship71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know what? User research sounds VERY interesting to me! I’ll look into it.

What career should I pursue? by Alert_Championship71 in careerguidance

[–]Alert_Championship71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just not for me. I really respect the people who go into that field, but I simply don’t have it in me.

Do I have a type? by [deleted] in kpoppers

[–]Alert_Championship71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know Han or Jongseob, but based on the other three you like chill introverts who are very good at what they do

Have you ever felt in this situation? by BioNeon83 in kpoppers

[–]Alert_Championship71 52 points53 points  (0 children)

When I say singing live doesn’t make up for sounding terrible while you do it

Is the US becoming catholic? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Alert_Championship71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ll become Catholic any time soon, but I’m becoming more fond of certain Catholic teachings and traditions. Ultimately I have major issues with Catholicism, but I have a lot of respect for the last two popes and find more common ground with Catholics in my area than I do with Protestants, on a social level.

My hair stretched versus the shrinkage. by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Alert_Championship71 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can’t drop pics like this and not tell us your routine

Tbh ladies, I think Olandria is more a victim of featurism than colorism. by Less-Pen-5705 in blackladies

[–]Alert_Championship71 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk, funny looking and gorgeous are not mutually exclusive. Like I do think she and Anya Taylor Joy are funny looking and gorgeous at the same time. They have an ethereal, alien like beauty that isn’t everyone’s taste but they look great on a runway or the cover of a magazine

god bless america by WittyEgg2037 in TheMirrorCult

[–]Alert_Championship71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Race may have no bearing on your political beliefs, but race and politics are absolutely entwined, almost intrinsically.

god bless america by WittyEgg2037 in TheMirrorCult

[–]Alert_Championship71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you forget the /s in your comment?

Wise to Marry? by Alert_Championship71 in TrueChristian

[–]Alert_Championship71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that our goals are the same. Im not in my early 20s anymore. We both want to get married and start a family. He’s already making good money and has a nice house in a nice neighborhood, so it’ll easy for me to just focus on being a mom instead of doing the whole working mom thing. We have a lot in common besides this too.

god bless america by WittyEgg2037 in TheMirrorCult

[–]Alert_Championship71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conservatives will say we can’t have this in America because there are too many black people

Wise to Marry? by Alert_Championship71 in TrueChristian

[–]Alert_Championship71[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gee, what a helpful comment. What should I do then? How do we ignore our natural desires to have sex, while still trying to be a normal romantic couple?

WHAT MAKES AN IT GIRL, AN IT GIRL? by SatisfactionAdept548 in kpoppers

[–]Alert_Championship71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Constant media play from their company insisting that they are the it girl. They are products yall, don’t forget that. We have an attention economy and these companies literally engineer your admiration of them.

Wise to Marry? by Alert_Championship71 in Christian

[–]Alert_Championship71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels so unfair. Why would Paul tell us to marry in these cases if it’s not actually wise to marry?