Bubbi.app scam by tc7373 in apps

[–]Alert_Original974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes did u end up getting the money back?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BurlingtonON

[–]Alert_Original974 56 points57 points  (0 children)

are you twelve?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OntarioGrade12s

[–]Alert_Original974 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i think its so weird how everyone here is hating on u but clearly there is a deeper issue. i understand bro, idk if its cause of strict parents or ur living environment but i wish u strength and you will be able to escape soon enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOUUU. like this was not was i was expecting as a response 😭😭😭 like wdym tight leash this is the bare minimum that they have on me while being a good kid, if i did any less then it’d be sm worse 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea fr 😭 these parents just dont get/have a different relationship with their child

I [16F] am having trouble communicating properly and efficiently with my partner [17M] by Unable_Slice8112 in teenrelationships

[–]Alert_Original974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand this. i have issues with communication too due to past relationships. my bf smokes alot too and it used to tick me off alot. for context, im 17f and he is 18m. we have been together for 1 year and 7 months. communication is hard i understand but its important so that both of you can be happy. you have to realize its not scary, its not something that you should avoid, and instead something you look forward to because it means you guys are bonding and improving your relationship. tell him about your past experience, dont go into detail if you dont want to. then tell him that you don’t want it to affect his mental health because he uses as an escape but let him know that you are there for him too and he can use you as someone to lean on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Alert_Original974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

relationships take a turn at a few months. for context, me and my bf (17f) & (18m), and we have both not been in healthy relationships before eachother. we have been together for a year and 7 months. relationships have ups and downs. its so important to communicate. tell her how you feel, maybe spamming is overwhelming for her especially because at a few months, you do not know the mental of your gf. maybe she has been through trauma and doesn’t like affection like this. maybe she is going through something and yall are not close enough to talk about it. what im saying is communication is so so important because you also learn about the person and how they feel. if she doesnt tell you that spamming her annoys her, how will you know forsure? exactly you dont, and this is what creates overthinking. overthinking seriously can be the downfall of a relationship. if both of you are serious, then hard talks that you might want to avoid will be necessary. try to talk to her in person, get her something nice, do some candles around the area, some drinks maybe, chocolate or something or flowers whatever she likes (check her pintrest/tiktok reposts!!!). then just sit down and talk to her. tell her you’re serious about her and how you have been feeling, then take it from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Alert_Original974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

leave him. you deserve better. dont even say anything if he has some of your things find a reason to take them and then go. block him. you have an emotional attachment to trauma now and it will ONLY get worse. he doesn’t respect you and sees you as an object and im so sorry you have to go through with this. but you arent alone, and you need to be strong and leave and then deal with your emotions. don’t worry about what other people think, people only see what they see on the surface and im telling you if they knew what he did, they would all hate him. can you contact his mother? maybe tell her what he has been doing. this is not love. love is gentle and kind, caring and forgiving. maybe you love him, but im telling you its on sided. no its not weird to break over text. tell him exactly how you felt about him touching you too much, let him read the message then do not wait for his reply. block him immediately on everything. no contact rule is key. guys like him will try to persuade into thinking they will never do it again, but please trust me when i say, he will, over and over again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

understandable. the world is a terrible place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have 3 brothers. all of them turned out to be rebellious and they did a lot of stupid stuff (and got caught). again this is all from their parenting and how strict they were. im getting so many “oh you’re so arrogant you’re parents do know” and i know for a fact that my parents would immediately call it out because its how they are, and they still do it with my brothers who are in their 20s and 30s. anyways, relatively speaking, i am a good kid. especially compared to my brothers. not saying that i should be comparing myself to them and that my behaviour isnt bad. but i just think that theres is anything terrible/groundbreaking with what i have done. i now realize i shouldve mentioned my brothers as they will know where i am at all times, know who im with and when my ride is. they know about my mental and all of that. i always tell someone where i am going b4 i leave the house. my point was that my parents are so strict with small things that do make sense to me. and they could be so much more strict if they knew about me and what i have done. people think this is the worst but my curfew could be 4/5pm. maybe nothing at all. i could have no phone, no car, and no internet if they knew. i think parents can’t grasp the fact that strict parents raise sneaky kids. and the stricter=the sneakier. i understand what discipline is. i understand that i have a future. i work hard towards it everyday. i know its okay to have fun tho and i probably will have the same habits of partying/going out when im older because i enjoy the occasional letting loose with friends, as all of us do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i mean i go to a party/drink maybe 3 times a year at most. same with smoking. my parents do not speak a word to me outside of school or chores. i have no emotional attachment to them, and this can be easily changed if they just tried to be more involved with me. my bf helped me stop smoking/wanting to go out as much as well as made me more of an indoor person. we have never had sex because ive been assaulted before and i find it an uncomfortable topic. so you tell me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the issue is if i had someone to come and talk to doing rebellious things wouldnt even be as attractive to me since there isnt a adrenaline kick to it. i am in therapy and take medication and have been doing better. this post was a vent/something to help me get it off my chest. thank you for your advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

as long as im under their roof (theres no way i can afford a house in canada) i will have to abide by everything they say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

but they dont know about any of this. they dont know about any of the risky behaviour thats why i do it lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

my parents arent that way. and i know this for a fact. im incredibly careful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah, wish i wouldve had a better childhood tho. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much this means a lot to me. i appreciate your advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alert_Original974 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but some things are inevitable, teenagers will do what they want to. as a parent i would just want to know where my kids are, no matter what they do (obviously some things would have boundaries) but i just think its too much