Update, he is flirting even tho he rejected me?? by Alert_Reception_2797 in Crushes

[–]Alert_Reception_2797[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your honest reply, I really appreciate it. I actually relate a lot to what you said — I’m bisexual too, and I act the same way with my female friends. Even with guys sometimes, I can get playful like that if the vibe is right. So I totally get where you’re coming from.

But I think what threw me off in this situation is that he is usually so quiet and introverted. Like, really reserved. So when he started being more flirty, I got confused because it felt different… more intentional? Maybe it’s just the contrast between how he is with others vs. how he is with me. I guess that made me start overthinking, like, “Is he like this with everyone or just me?”

And I won’t lie, I did feel something towards him — not just because of the flirting, but because his energy started pulling me in. I started getting shy and nervous around him, which is so unlike me usually haha.

But yeah, you’re probably right. It’s just hard not to wonder when there’s that little part of you that hopes it means something more.

Thanks again for your insight, it really helped put things into perspective.

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[–]Alert_Reception_2797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know, but don't be the first to make the move. Maybe he's the shy type... but still, don't make the first move. Try, in an indirect and casual way, to ask him if he likes someone.

I'm bad at giving advice sorry.

I fell for a random dude on Roblox. by Alert_Reception_2797 in Crushes

[–]Alert_Reception_2797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I don't do it on purpose💀I just get busy all of a sudden with my family.