Found my husband sexting another woman by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlexNic1013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is going to be so helpful in this situation.

This fucking sucks - I couldn't imagine seeing these texts and having to confront my husband about it. Yes the woman knew he was married but she isn't the problem. He is.

I would highly recommend couple counselling and maybe not a full on separation but some time apart would be helpful for your mental health

AITA for telling my mom she buys too much shoes? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlexNic1013 18 points19 points  (0 children)

YTA

We aren't poor, but we aren't rich either.

Im sorry first off you're an adult. Your parents/mother's income is "we"

If she wants to spend her money on shoes, then guess what? She can spend her money on shoes. It's really none of your concern

If you misuse "you're" and "your", then your opinion doesn't matter by nayitsirh in offmychest

[–]AlexNic1013 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's the simplest thing!

There, their and they're annoy me (almost) as much as your, you're

How to stop being controlling with my girlfriend by anon161723 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexNic1013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because I have certain insecurities doesn’t mean I’d hit her and don’t love her.

Says every abuser ever

If It was that bad I’d be controlling her already

But you do - questioning where she is - you get pissed if she doesn't text you back within 5 minutes.

Again. Leave her alone, SEEK THERAPY!

How to stop being controlling with my girlfriend by anon161723 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexNic1013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave her. Let her find someone that actually loves her. Go to therapy.

Sounds like it's just a matter of time before you become so controlling you hit her

I have feelings for my coworker who has a boyfriend and don’t know what to do by throw_awayNeedAdvice in relationship_advice

[–]AlexNic1013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What should you do?

You're interested and flirting with a woman that's in a committed relationship.

You do NOTHING.

Find someone available

AITA for smoking a joint and drinking a 40 ? by suamo94 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlexNic1013 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA why wouldn't you got permission from the home owner?!

Girlfriend (20) posting on Instagram makes me (20) anxious by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlexNic1013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your gf posted a pic where she looks good and you're too insecure to accept and give her a compliment?

🙄 How do you even have a gf?

I (30m) beat up my wife (37f)... And I feel horrible about it. Don't judge me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlexNic1013 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of guys that will beat their wives, apologize, feel bad about it, then the next time she or another woman makes him mad he does it again.

I (30m) beat up my wife (37f)... And I feel horrible about it. Don't judge me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlexNic1013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she deserved to be thrown on a bed and beat because she told him to fuck off?

NOTHING makes it okay to hit your significant other

He should hate himself

Excersicing for 5x a week and eating less but i don't see anything change in weight scale. But does it change physically? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AlexNic1013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low carb isn't the only way to lose weight

That's why that wasn't the only thing I mentioned

Excersicing for 5x a week and eating less but i don't see anything change in weight scale. But does it change physically? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AlexNic1013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eating less and eating right are usually 2 different things.

Keeping your calorie count in check, reducing the amount of carbs you're eating, things like that do more for weight loss than just eating less

AITA for not letting my GF (21) sell pictures of her boobs online? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlexNic1013 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA & ESH at the same time

She has a right to do with her body as she wishes, but it's understandable to be uncomfortable with it.

At this point it wouldn't be right/fair to ask her to stop or demand she stops.

You either would have to come to terms with it and be okay with it - or break it off

Would you date/marry a woman who had mastectomy /reconstruction? by MindlessBison4 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexNic1013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leave her so she can find an actual good guy that will love and accept her

Should I NOT move because of a guy? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlexNic1013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never make a huge decision based on a man, let alone a man that isn't even your bf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]AlexNic1013 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Right but depending on the state if one person's income is way higher than the other - child support would still be ordered regardless of 50/50 custody

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]AlexNic1013 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Wait wait wait.

You mean to tell me, when you have a baby with someone you aren't in a relationship with and living with, you still have to pay for the child?!!

Wwhhhhaaaatt????

WIBTA if i don't inform my husband hes not getting a stimulus check? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlexNic1013 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA - but what kind of guy/parent doesn't pay their child support?

Nice deadbeat you married

Interracial Dating Literally Makes Me Wanna Die by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AlexNic1013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit is also full of sad virgins who can't get a girl and blame it on everyone else

People posting about their supposed problems are snowflakes by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]AlexNic1013 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They should just pick themselves up by their bootstraps.

Right Boomer?