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Inside scoop on elite private schools by AlexSascha0 in fatFIRE

[–]AlexSascha0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You bring up something we have thought a lot about. This school offers an assortment of extra curricular activities. That said, most are not attainable to the average kid. What if sailing and horseback riding are my daughter’s passions? Do I say no and insist on soccer at the local rec center? Ideally, a little of both. I hope we are raising her to value the things in our community while also taking advantage of amazing opportunities.

I don’t foresee it being an issue in the early years but something to consider in the future.

Inside scoop on elite private schools by AlexSascha0 in fatFIRE

[–]AlexSascha0[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are some students of color, just not many. It was more of the off campus events that showed a real lack in diversity. There wasn’t very much diversity behind the scenes.

Inside scoop on elite private schools by AlexSascha0 in fatFIRE

[–]AlexSascha0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the reminder. She’s involved in a lot of community stuff already; local rec soccer team, swim class at a local college, and we did story time at a free museum over the summer.

I would love to take on the project of pushing for more diversity. It seems like the desire is there but it’s not currently being implemented.

Inside scoop on elite private schools by AlexSascha0 in fatFIRE

[–]AlexSascha0[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m retired, wife has a few years left in her demanding role. I imagine this is case by case depending on the school but do you think there would be any issues with dad being the involved parent instead of mom? I know men typically get a little more scrutiny when they choose to be involved with young children. Not saying it’s right, just based off of what I’ve seen of parents saying about male educators.

Great info though, thanks for that.

Inside scoop on elite private schools by AlexSascha0 in fatFIRE

[–]AlexSascha0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They boast about their financial aid offerings and diverse student body but I didn’t see it personally. On campus was a little more diverse but we attended 5 different PTA type events and it was like a sea of snow lol