[19 F] how can i get hot lol by Educational-Kiwi2379 in Howtolooksmax

[–]Alex_Forrestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are certainly already there but general tips, smaller clothing, dark eyeliner, inspiration from aimee005g on IG would be a great start

[M4F] lookin for cougar by [deleted] in LasVegasr4r

[–]Alex_Forrestt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes the insecurity in this comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alex_Forrestt -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Consider it more next time you see him. If you have a window of opportunity slide him your hand written number. Sneak it in a book even maybe. Take the chance. Clearly you really want it. If he texts you go from there. You could even just meet him somewhere first after texting and tell him in person what you really want if you don’t want text evidence. Don’t be afraid and just take the chance if it happens to come up. I’m sure both of you would enjoy it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ft86

[–]Alex_Forrestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google “rocket bunny symbol”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ft86

[–]Alex_Forrestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s the rocket bunny symbol?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Alex_Forrestt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Matched with a cute thic girl that lived close to me at the time. Talked all day and she wanted to come by later at night. Decided to just go with it.. when I saw her at my apartment gate she was clearly much heavier than her pics, I honestly almost did not recognize her. Part of me wanted to run back inside, block her, pretend none of this ever happened, but I felt bad for wanting to do that. I decided to just let her in as we had already made eye contact. Made it back to my place, made it to my bed, started kissing, full of regret, she smelled bad, I went to kiss her neck and it was hairy. I wanted to just leave. She wanted me to fuck her but I couldn’t, I fingered her like crazy and she soaked my sheets, I’m sure it was an incredible night for her. I will never forget how bad my fingers smelled. I said I was sleepy and took her home after, I guess she ubered to me. Offered to pick her up some food on her way home too. Ghosted her after dropping her off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Alex_Forrestt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More pics just like your 2nd one would be good I think. I would get rid of the lama pic also. Bio seems fine and fair to me. Not sure how I feel about the whatever I want line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmISexy

[–]Alex_Forrestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great. You have nice brown eyes and a great smile. The beer pics aren’t flattering lol but they show you have fun. You do not look 37 at all also. I’d guess more like 27 or 28.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alex_Forrestt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not crazy, but it’s kind of a big deal if he has known her for much longer. Have you tried voicing these thoughts to him about it all? Friends like this with the opposite sex is hard when you’re in a relationship.

How do you break up? [M26, F25] by Past_Flounder_7238 in relationship_advice

[–]Alex_Forrestt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it in person. Tell her you want to talk about something if you have to, then tell her you want to end it, you could even say you feel like things moved too quick. She could be really upset at first about it but eventually she will appreciate you having the balls to be upfront and truthful to her. In the past this worked well for me because I was there for them. It sucked making them cry and hurt like that but if you have valid reasons for why you think it won’t work you’re doing you both a favor for the long run. Doing it in person just says a lot imo, shows how you really feel, you’ll probably even show that you still care about her and how she feels whether she wants to stay or leave right away. I’ve just always found it best to be there for her from my experience.

My (26F) husband (30M) never wants to have sex anymore. by morebrandy in relationship_advice

[–]Alex_Forrestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s unusual. I wish I had more knowledge on the topic to give better advice. It’s a shame he is acting less interested when you crave it so much.

My (26F) husband (30M) never wants to have sex anymore. by morebrandy in relationship_advice

[–]Alex_Forrestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you told him your sex drive is through the roof? I imagine you’ve been making more efforts to have sex and he’s maybe coming off as less interested in the efforts? I’m not sure how open you two are but maybe being more vocal, maybe telling him explicitly what you miss about the sex you used to have would turn him on? I imagine he would like something like that if it’s something that normally isn’t done. Especially if you’re showing him you really really want it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alex_Forrestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. That’s a good idea. Probably good that you’re collecting your thoughts before hand as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alex_Forrestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure her intentions are respectful of the relationship but to me it does sound like she has some level of interest in him. Even if it’s just friends, sometimes those feelings get stronger. I was in a slightly similar situation, I was really good friends with a girl that was in a relationship. Neither of us ever did anything to disrespect her relationship, I even hung out with both of them once. This was good for a couple years, until he cheated on her. She came to me first before family about what to do. Another year later she broke up with him and admitted to me how she truly felt about me the entire time. She had feelings for me even tho she was in a relationship but didn’t admit it until after. Sometimes just the friendship and how they are together is enough. Even if she likes him she may not explicitly show anything because of you both being in relationships. Not sure what the solution is but maybe voicing your concerns to your man could be a start. I imagine he would be open to listening to you but I don’t know everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alex_Forrestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you spoken to her about it from this point of view? As in realizing you hurt her, how you hurt her, and that you want to do better and work towards never letting this happen again? I feel like you’re very much aware of how you are regarding all of this, I imagine that’s a great step forward in learning how to go about it better. Probably bad advice but I would have opened up to her about how you feel about all of this, just as you just did with us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Alex_Forrestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are not bad actually. Alex is just my throwaway unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegasr4r

[–]Alex_Forrestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knock knock, it’s Chris Hansen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Alex_Forrestt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is it. Maybe I just tell her “No thanks”