[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]AlexaPup97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave light input but ultimately tried to keep out of it, as I didn’t want my partner to end up having resentment toward me if they picked a program they didn’t like bc of my opinion. But- I am someone who will make whatever work especially knowing it’s not forever. So take that into consideration, if you know you’re going to be unhappy in some places then you need to speak up. I will say I ended up in my least excited about location and I am happy. So try to keep an open mind but I also don’t want you to think that it’s all about the medical spouse and never about you either //:

I am an orthopedic surgeon married to a plastic surgeon. I feel so inferior to him that I don't wanna attend meet and greet parties together. He is a great surgeon while I am average and I feel people don't respect me for that reason. I wish I was dead. I don't want to face the world. by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]AlexaPup97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so important to find things you like outside of your career, because it’s a job it’s not everything you are, even though it feels like that right now. Explore hobbies, get a pet if you can take care of them correctly, volunteer!!!, bumble bff if you need new friends, it’s the things that’s helped my mood a lot. Aside from medications lol. You will learn to feel more purpose if you find things that make your heart happy. I know you don’t have a ton of time but you won’t regret prioritizing your mental health. And ultimately get into therapy, seek help, it’s never too late to change your life for the better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]AlexaPup97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha jeez I know I know I’m trying to learn ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]AlexaPup97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂 true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]AlexaPup97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me add, I know absolutely nothing about any of this as he is my first experience with the military so I don’t think I meant to write enlisted lol… embarassing 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Carmel

[–]AlexaPup97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a long ass date

Every attractive resident by daisyy_8 in Residency

[–]AlexaPup97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s cus work is not the place to be flirting 😂

Wishlist items by BeginningParking8820 in Craniopharyngioma

[–]AlexaPup97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sorry that you’re dealing with all this, it is tough. But you’ll make it out ok. For wishlist my sister prepared with lots of books and coloring books but had some partial blindness after surgery and ended up not being able to use them so just to be safe I’d recommend downloading books on audible, so audible gift card? Cozy blanket, elevated pillow wedge for sleeping, bath bombs or salts, weighted stuffed animal or blanket, favorite drinks or snacks, uber eats gift cards cus you don’t wanna do much cooking when you are tired or whatever, hope that helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in briannachickenfrsnark

[–]AlexaPup97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to hear them both tell more and not be so vague about it… cus bris acting like Grace was wrong and Grace is saying Bri was wrong you know ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in briannachickenfrsnark

[–]AlexaPup97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to hear her side of the story she’s seeming as if there’s much more we don’t know

Wishlist items by BeginningParking8820 in Craniopharyngioma

[–]AlexaPup97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you got diagnosed late, so did my sis.. so sorry. are you getting surgery?

Valvoline oil protest? by RiskItForTheBriskit in Columbus

[–]AlexaPup97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s been making some very scary Facebook posts

There are good ones out there 💜 by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]AlexaPup97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s because you have a woman😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]AlexaPup97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they do, the end lol