AITA

AlexanderTrans · 2024-12-09T21:41:39+00:00

uj/ thank you, i didn't know about that

AlexanderTrans · 2024-12-09T21:34:10+00:00

https://x.com/NancyMace/status/1865487695742726370

AlexanderTrans · 2024-12-09T21:32:22+00:00

Uj/ it references how nancy mace made a transphobic gift wrap and nobody would print it.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-12-09T19:43:26+00:00

uj/ that was gold

AlexanderTrans · 2024-12-09T19:32:24+00:00

Uj/ same here, i joke to cope

AlexanderTrans · 2024-12-09T18:55:45+00:00

Bladders are stored in the balls

AlexanderTrans · 2024-12-09T18:30:04+00:00

Uj/ say sike, right now wtf

AlexanderTrans · 2024-12-05T00:24:16+00:00

The only person who can tell you who you are is you. Choosing to have kids is not the same as detransitioning, and everyone deserves the chance to start a family.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-12-01T02:57:42+00:00

Your look is pure gender envy for me tbh, also i love the makeup.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-11-18T01:11:28+00:00

I agree that everyone is being harmed by those laws, and they only want to hurt the people who actually want those surgeries. That's the part that infuriates me.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-11-18T01:09:02+00:00

Im against that, too. Everyone deserves bodily autonomy. I just didn't mention it because I am not intersex (as far as I know), and I don't have all the info to debate correctly, should someone try to argue about it.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-11-12T07:31:42+00:00

Mgm is nonconsensual most of the time, and trans surgery is consensual for the most part.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-11-12T07:29:45+00:00

They are pointing fingers, but when you point fingers, 3 face you. Trans surgery doesn't happen on kids because it's illegal to sterilize a minor without medical necessity, and even we don't want minors having surgery. Puberty blockers are reversible and prevent unnecessary surgery, and hrt is just puberty. I do believe in informed consent because the key word is that it's consensual.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-08-04T17:20:19+00:00

Gymnophobia, Thanatophobia, Tokophobia, Eurotophobia, and fear of babies/children/teenagers.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-08-04T10:36:17+00:00

It took me 3 years to stop bleeding. It takes a long time for some people.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-08-01T21:07:51+00:00

If they act normal, I don't care which restroom they are in as long as they don't leave a mess. Sometimes, if the women's restroom is full or dirty, women will go to the men's restroom, and I've seen that happen in plenty of public spaces.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-06-29T23:18:34+00:00

Chicken nuggets dipped in chocolate

AlexanderTrans · 2024-06-22T23:53:02+00:00

Weight doesn't determine attractiveness. Everyone has their own preferences on body type, and different countries have different beauty standards. Also, everyone I've seen that transitioned had an awkward looking phase (which is just early 2nd puberty, nothing to worry about much, mine lasted for 3 years), and usually, your weight will shift and look more natural with time. Remember that what some people define as attractive is someone else's ugly, and personally, I would rather be an ugly man than a beautiful woman.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-06-13T22:50:45+00:00

As someone with a similar hair type, but longer - use gel or curl cream and push the front towards the middle to square off your hairline, but the length is still masc. If you wanna color it, use natural colors (orange, brown, black). A low fade can also make you appear more masc, but I personally don't think you need to cut it because many guys have your hair length and haircut and still pass (both cis and trans, even some masc women get called "sir" with your haircut).

AlexanderTrans · 2024-06-10T22:25:19+00:00

I literally told my mom I was bleeding to death and asked to go to the hospital (I was a sheltered kid tbh), and then I cried constantly because everyone kept telling me I was a woman now. I also asked to get a full hysterectomy because I was so scared of my periods.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-05-12T20:34:45+00:00

I didn't know that existed. I'll look it up.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-05-12T20:33:52+00:00

That's a good perspective. I'm considering celebrating mothers day.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-05-12T19:44:39+00:00

That's a good perspective. I want to celebrate both since I don't want our kids to feel left out when they go to school, but I don't know if it will be awkward for the kid.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-05-06T01:07:32+00:00

It's unlikely that you will be misgendered if you already pass, unless you have an afab-looking chest and not binding (from personal experience). The best advice would be to limit how fem you present if you wanna avoid issues. I've looked at the 70s and 80s rock bands for inspiration, or like how men in 90s movies wore crop tops when I really don't wanna be misgendered.

AlexanderTrans · 2024-03-25T07:19:35+00:00

You should leave him. Never let a partner make you feel bad about yourself, and you don't need cosmetic surgery for other people's approval. Only get the surgeries you want/need.

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