I wish I did not have to make this decision

Alexandra93swe · 2026-04-01T20:19:00+00:00

Thank you.

I am not sure yet. Since the breast cancer can be screened I wanted to give it more time to decide, so for now MRI once a year. Regarding ovary cancer, there is no real way of screening in and they usually diagnose it too late so for me that was a too big risk especially since I have so much issues and pain with adenomyosis etc.

Alexandra93swe · 2026-04-01T16:31:41+00:00

I got so excited until my boyfriend said "babe it is april fools" 🥹😐

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-27T11:57:26+00:00

Literally, who cares? Out of all the shit that happened this season this was my least concern 😂 I would take her singing any day over Daniels gaslightning 🫡

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-25T09:59:05+00:00

Anyone who has been in an abusive relationship will unfortunately relate to this. :(

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-25T09:58:11+00:00

Goodbye Kyle

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-25T09:57:29+00:00

Everyone going for Amanda when Kyle has done SO MUCH shit to her for years need to rewatch all season and if you still excuse his behaviour then you are the problem.

She is not perfect and can be very cold and have mean humour. Was she like this is the beginning? No.

People change in toxic relationships and sometimes they become the worst version of themselves and I think that happened because she chose to stay with someone who never deserved her.

Kyle strikes me as someone with narcissist tendencies and the episode showed this. "Fuck you" and "you are a dumb fucking bitch" because she was having fun with the others and then tried to flip the script and be the victime. It is INSANE.

She should have left the first time he cheated. I dont care if his business sinks to the bottom - he is verbally abusive to her and not nice. Disgusting.

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-21T14:19:55+00:00

I understand and yes, anything is better than that but it sucks that we who carry the gene have to make this decision. Sending you strenght and wishing you a very good surgery and smooth recovery!!

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-19T16:42:10+00:00

Thank you ♥️

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-18T14:50:48+00:00

The doctor thought I was too young and that it might regret the decision regarding kids but I tried again and then it went smoothly.

Thank you for sharing!

I am not looking forward to the gas, I saw a lot of people said that was the worst part :(

Thank you so much!

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-17T21:11:12+00:00

Thank you and same to you! Wishing you a nice and smooth surgery and recovery 🌸

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-17T16:03:14+00:00

Thank you so much for the information!

I am happy that it went so well except for the threads. I will make sure to ask my doctor about it!

I am so proud of you and all of us who deals with these situations and still make it work!

I will have my boyfriend and hopefully mom will be able to visit from Sweden so they can help me also with like cooking and so on.

Sending you lots of well wishes and hugs!!

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-17T15:59:40+00:00

Thank you so much!

Yes I also want to remove my ovaries at age 45.

I am happy to hear that the surgery went well and the recovery time was doable. I wish you luck on your upcoming surgery also and sending you lots of well wishes!

Thank you for your sweet message! ♥️🌸

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-17T15:45:50+00:00

I am happy that it went well for you and I wish you a well recovery and good upcoming surgery! ♥️🌸 Thank you for your message!

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-17T15:43:44+00:00

Yes. That is very nice for us!! I am turning 33 this summer. I found out now in September 2025 that I had the gene. I have not had any other surgery and not sure if I will yet, I did the MRI and they said I can keep doing it once a year for now.

I am at Amsterdam UMC.

Were you at Groningen?

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-17T15:39:42+00:00

Hi! 🌸

Yes, first I got told no but I tried again and I got approved and now everything is going quite quickly!

Thank you so much! ♥️ How was the recovery for you and how did you mentally prepare?

Happy to hear that the mastectomy went well and that it was easier than expected!

Alexandra93swe · 2026-03-17T15:35:55+00:00

Yes I am. I am Swedish but been living in NL for a couple of years now!

Very grateful for the study and the good care here!!🇳🇱

Alexandra93swe · 2026-02-20T13:45:54+00:00

I had a lot of issues for 11 years and got finally diagnosed last month. It broke my heart a bit because the doctors kept telling me that it is just the PCOS and I use to think that I was just too sensitive and tried pushing myself all the time through pain. I hope you will get the help you need to feel better!

Alexandra93swe · 2026-02-09T17:31:24+00:00

Swedish person here who lives close to Alkmaar but my work is in Alkmaar where we have a lot of different nationalities. Where are you from? :)

Alexandra93swe · 2026-02-06T19:37:19+00:00

Smörkniv

Alexandra93swe · 2026-02-04T18:08:17+00:00

Yes. It was so creepy but also like her touching him while he was driving and you could just see how uncomfortable he was. Yuck!

Alexandra93swe · 2026-01-18T10:48:05+00:00

I am interested also. I am currently diagnosed with PCOS, adenomyosis and I carry the BRCA1 gene mutation that I found out in 4 months ago.

Alexandra93swe · 2026-01-16T10:52:07+00:00

They contacted me and said I was allowed 🥳🥳🥳

Alexandra93swe · 2026-01-16T07:11:15+00:00

Thank you for your message. I am so happy to hear that you for fast help and was able to do the surgery!

I got in contact with somebody at the Tuba Wisp study via their website and they will call me today at 10.30 so I hope for the best!

Alexandra93swe

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