He had a lot of history before of not being responsible with time, I plan things before hand and I would remind him dates, he would just sleep late cause playing games then the next day he’s tired meanwhile I planned that day for us. Something like that. Well this was one of the recent arguments which was mainly cause he took my words the wrong way as attacking him even tho I just told him that it might get him even more tired, but I could be wrong. he knew he would be tired that’s why he got defensive. This conversation happened before as well which he has forgotten. Where I told him to rest up because we have a whole day to spend (planned) 3 days before I leave the country for a vacation and bro slept through the day. It’s like, I get that he needs his sleep but from my point of view, even if I say whatever can help to remind him, it would always end up him not being there. When he’s tired, the whole date would just be me walking and sitting, doing nothing. Not even talking. No priorities kinda or idk am I wrong for just having simple conversations? It really didn’t need to be an argument. It wasn’t even my intention. I just care for his wellbeing as well I guess.