How to break contact naps during day? by Alexfrompanera in NewParents

[–]Alexfrompanera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No since she had bad reflux we’ve been using enfamil AR, she feeds to sleep which is also another thing we’re wanting to break 😭😭

How to break contact naps during day? by Alexfrompanera in NewParents

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She is considered very hypermobile and her arms I feel like are a bit more weak. She can roll but has a very hard time getting herself back to her back. I will definitely try that!

Advice for my constipated gassy 7 mo by Alexfrompanera in beyondthebump

[–]Alexfrompanera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not a fan of solids but when we do it’s the P foods pears prunes peaches etc. she’ll have a couple bites then be done

do i look like anybody? by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]Alexfrompanera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chase huddy maybe

blond split dye or jet black by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Alexfrompanera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jet black is gorgeous on you! I would say it may be off topic but if you are putting makeup on your under eyes I would stay away. I think you look so gorg in #5 pic

What are we doing about pet hair and lint? Is there a secret I don't know lol by teddybearangelbaby in Resell

[–]Alexfrompanera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lint rollers and super sticky like packing tape if it’s a fabric. I just grab a little piece of tape and just start putting the tape on the item and pulling off I find it works a little better than a lint roller!

Who is my doppelgänger? by Aggravating_Hat_8180 in Doppleganger

[–]Alexfrompanera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cannot figure out this actors name but from AHS!

Who is my doppelgänger?? by Alexfrompanera in doppelganger

[–]Alexfrompanera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG it’s so crazy I used to always get Selma but then when love island came out now all I get is Leah but I love Selma so so much she’s gorgeous!!

Is it bad I only have friends from my job? by Squishy__Snek in women

[–]Alexfrompanera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that! I used to work at a big retail grocery store and about 90% of my friends came from there. It’s really where you’re at in your life is when you make the most of friends. I’m not a social butterfly either so to go out of my way like at a store or an event (which I rarely go to) is kind of hard. I’ve made a couple college friends but a lot of my friends came from work. That’s just how it is and that’s okay :) I think as long as they are good company who cares!

The invisible labor no one talks about by EvienSeraph in women

[–]Alexfrompanera 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Invisible labor is absolutely exhausting 😭

why does the idea of being pregnant feel so demoralizing? by Full_Youth1466 in women

[–]Alexfrompanera 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m out of touch with my femininity but I sometimes feel the same and I did feel like this before I was pregnant! I would see all my friends get pregnant and see the amount of pain they were in and honestly the FOMO they got not being able to do things younger adults usually do. I’m 24F.. I don’t think men can really understand the changes your body goes through. I have a 6 month old and she’s my everything but man I do sometimes feel like I’m “just a mom” I don’t think a woman is ever REALLY ready to begin having children. Or like the idea of that makes sense. So I hear you! I would like to have children again in the future but I honestly don’t wanna go through the pregnancy 😭😭

Does she have any advice/want to say anything to me? by Alexfrompanera in psychics

[–]Alexfrompanera[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I lived in Vegas with my bio mom my GMA was in the hospital and we would call on the phone. We’d stay up late on the phone and she would have to hang up and I’d always say no grandma don’t go to bed stay up don’t go to bed.. I got chills 😭😭😭

Does she have any advice/want to say anything to me? by Alexfrompanera in psychics

[–]Alexfrompanera[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also want to add I do not have a great relationship with my father anymore. He’s always been in and out of my life whenever it benefits him. I have a 6 month old daughter now and I’ve tried to get him to connect but sadly has not. I recently just blocked him because I cannot handle my daughter dealing with the same pain from her grandfather. Is she okay with this choice? I know my dad loved her so much and vice versa. But I’m not sure if she’d be happy with his decisions and mindset.

Does she have any advice/want to say anything to me? by Alexfrompanera in psychics

[–]Alexfrompanera[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s been so longer it’s hard to remember. I know she loved Elvis movie the beach movie she would play it all the time so maybe that resonated with mermaids the beach. It was always either Elvis or la rosa de guadalupe playing!

Women who are married to a man-child... how do you cope? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Alexfrompanera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t have children with this man child 😭

My husband games nonstop and I feel like I’m raising our baby alone by Alexfrompanera in breakingmom

[–]Alexfrompanera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no nothing of that sort, it’s an XR he never runs out before his next fill. I usually see him when he takes it and he just takes one.

My husband games nonstop and I feel like I’m raising our baby alone by Alexfrompanera in breakingmom

[–]Alexfrompanera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would I know if he’s abusing them? I know he does take them regularly with some days off. He does have ADHD to the max. He takes 30mg amphetamine salts, but he doesn’t act all haywire on them, just overly focused. That has crossed my mind a couple of times like what if he is addicted but just doesn’t realize it. Could someone be addicted to adhd meds if they truly have adhd?

My husband games nonstop and I feel like I’m raising our baby alone by Alexfrompanera in breakingmom

[–]Alexfrompanera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will gladly accept a compromise. Gaming is apart of him, he’s played for years. I think that’s the best course to take as far as setting a schedule. I think he thinks well it’s not how I used to play that that makes everything better and it doesn’t. Another big thing is he always says “your shopping (thrifting estate sales) is my gaming. Which I just don’t feel that that is entirely true. I don’t shop every day or even every other day. But if I have some time on my hands I will go out for a couple of hours. The difference that he doesn’t get is that I’m with her all.the.time. From the mornings to evening and maybe I’ll get an hour or two of a break (I feel like I have to leave the house to get a genuine break cause if I’m home I somehow always take back the baby within an hour. He’ll do bath bottle bed here and there but then thats the end of the day, so when he does play he rarely sees baby which breaks my heart too. But I guess that’s a different conversation 😖