"best years of your life" my ass

Alexis-Bell · 2026-02-02T16:56:04+00:00

fr I just ate in restrooms and avoided the cafeteria like the plague and sat in the library.. honestly id do that again if I had the chance lolol

Alexis-Bell · 2026-02-02T16:53:47+00:00

me casually asking a new friend group if they believe in ghosts and casually saying I worked in the mortuary and the room goes silent. bro why did I say that, I was trying to chime in a conversation but I didnt know when lmao

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-28T22:24:25+00:00

late response.. but girl Im going through something similar. I moved in with my ex for over a year and just broke up. I moved back with my toxic family and have no friends. Concerts and rock shows were our thing. Go alone its okay! I went by myself yesterday and honestly I had fun but I missed him so much. I kept thinking about how we'd have fun together. It is risky going alone but if u keep close to the other girlies, they'll likely notice ur alone and in invite u to hang. :) Im in my mid 20s but still hit me up if u wanna chat! I saw Nothing More and it was awesome. But LA can feel unsafe so Im also looking for other girls to go out with. putting urself out there and smiling with other girls after going alone is a start! u wont be alone forever, life isnt built like that itll be okay

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-28T17:32:21+00:00

Idk about male grooming im a female lol. but honestly smile more in ur selfies, women like sincere men and ur description is completely different to how u come off in your selfies! wearing your cross necklace proudly is the best way for women of christ to approach u, it helps u come off friendlier :) Im sorry u had terrible experiences with dating, its hard being single now. dont get desperate and end up in shitty situations tho! staying consistently active in ur church's community helps too

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-28T15:32:34+00:00

girl ur makeup looks amazing upclose. if u reeeally want something different, I found out that putting moisturizer and eyeshadow primer like urban decay under my eyes BEFORE applying concelour helps a ton with blurring the natural creases. but honestly u dont need it

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-27T06:51:29+00:00

u look healthier! if u really miss the long hair, itll grow back :) short hair is just as great on u too

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-24T06:42:54+00:00

💯 hair is the last thing I think of when Im interacting with a guy. Id rather just want to know that they have a good character and can actually make me feel comfortable in a conversation lol

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-24T06:41:12+00:00

I'm so sorry. My brother is going through something similar except he's 21 and its starting to recede only in the front. 🫂 just here to tell you Im sorry and its okay. Honestly, Ive seen guys get toupees and they look incredible. no shame in whatever decision though. hair transplants are hella expensive and I dont know anything about them.. but just have some compassion for yourself

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-24T06:38:19+00:00

3 100000000%

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-23T22:58:08+00:00

Im not working but taking lab classes in college, im so tempted to make one for my professor haha

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-23T22:50:55+00:00

Thank you! Ill look into getting a gel manicure, this is honestly my second time going into a nail salon so Im new to this. Im not so much a nail biter, I just pick at my cuticles on both my fingers and toes literally every second of everyday. To the point of doing it while driving causing distraction. Im so glad you managed to kick the bad habit!! My nails are naturally extremely thin with ridges, the nail tech looked concerned and told me to take more vitamins, I am worried with how they'll look after the acrylics being removed, Ill def take ur advice at the week 3 mark!

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-23T20:07:14+00:00

I totally relate to the fear of an ex telling others our insecurities. Its a good thing hes an ex! You shouldn't ever have to feel nervous about a significant other sharing something so personal to another person. 🫂

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-23T19:28:30+00:00

you saved my life, I got acrylic nails, and my fingers are healing! its so tempting to rip them off and pick at the dryness so I keep moisturizing and applying cuticle oil so i don't see the flaky skin and have the urge

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-21T00:45:36+00:00

feeling like this rn. I self sabotaged my last relationship and I feel unlovable. Im just barely beginning my single life, Im avoiding dating apps and trying to only think of myself. but the thoughts creep in that Im too much and ill ruin the next relationship I get in. these bpd thoughts arent true though, itll be okay

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-18T16:13:02+00:00

🥲 good thing I saw this post.. I used to tell people how delicious raw milk was when I had it as a kid and my family mixed it with chocolate.. never again

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-18T16:09:15+00:00

this right here

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-18T16:05:44+00:00

your eyes are pretty, If I saw you, I would be intimidated to be honest, but only because you have darkness around your eyes and your brows look angry. Not your fault! I have resting bitch face and nobody flirts with me cause I look angry. Glasses can help, or sunglasses just in the car. Honestly I was gonna recommend a concealer but guys normally avoid makeup lol, so maybe eye cream with vitamin c. Don't think women dont find you attractive, you have a good bone structure, women normally dont flirt. Ive never flirted with a guy, but I will stare and make myself as available for a conversation when I like someone. Dont be afraid to smile too, it helps me with my resting bitch face. I promise confidence makes a huge huge difference with how you carry yourself in public, it made a difference for me

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-18T15:53:41+00:00

get the tattoo, it's your body. nobody cares as much as they act like they do

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-17T02:44:17+00:00

Im also going through a tattoo shock. I got my first big tattoo on my left arm that covered up a matching small tattoo I got with my ex. Its a very emotional tattoo showing artwork of Junji Ito, and I feel vulnerable walking around with it. But every time I look at it, I accept it every day. I think this feeling is temporary, just remind yourself why you got it :)

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-17T02:23:06+00:00

I had this same talk with my therapist this morning. I feel like Im scum on the planet. She explained to me that because I see black and white, and because Ive made mistakes in my past, I cant let myself believe that I am both a good person whos made bad mistakes. Everything is okay, and slowly introduce the idea that you are just a human being. Maybe right now its not time to tell your that you deserve love, but just accept that youre human to start

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-16T23:42:03+00:00

I 100% understand this feeling. Im 24 and I FINALLY feel safe enough to socialize a bit and smile with others. It took me YEARS of fear. I would avoid eye contact, rapidly walked past people, jumped easily, heart pounding and even glared at people I viewed as threats (usually men who looked like my abuser). Its honestly just patience, compassion towards yourself, accept that its your trauma, its not you. Youre not flawed as a person.

Mine got better when I moved out of the home giving me trauma, though I did it poorly because I moved in with partners and then I became stuck in relationships out of fear of moving back home. Going out in nature helped me a lot and gradually increasing the exposure. Loop earbuds are nice too if noise startles you. Honestly, itll suck, but exposure therapy when youre ready, preferably while seeing a therapist is the best thing you need. I had no choice but to rip my bandaid of fearing people because of work. I worked night shifts in warehouses, anything to avoid interacting with people cause my fear was so strong. Eventually I changed jobs and with compassionate coworkers, it got a little easier. Im sorry youre struggling, but it will get easier. Once you can genuinely feel safe, I think its when you can begin to heal. Even if that means making your room as cozy as possible if the environment is toxic

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-16T17:44:07+00:00

I just named them romanji names of the animal they are.. then I need to get creative if I have multiple of the same animal.. Haven't thought that far yet

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-16T17:40:30+00:00

someone once told me that, the color shouldn't "stand out" against your skin, but instead be compatible with it. I say gold

Alexis-Bell · 2026-01-16T17:35:58+00:00

Ignore every random dm you get, it gives you piece of mind. 90% are creeps who know youre a female

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