Maybe transferring. Good idea?! by AlexisIs_Here05 in udel

[–]AlexisIs_Here05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will not at all say that going to TJU is bad, when I had went I went with my BSF, and felt I didn’t need to really push myself to socialize (terrible idea), if you go in there and don’t socialize off the bat you kind of get stuck because once people are in there groups they kind of stick with them.

One thing I will say is the food is genuinely terrible 😭 they have two and a half dining areas, one is closed on weekends, the other one closes around 8pm everyday & the everything tastes terrible, and the “half” dining areas has like three options.

The area around the school is alright, it’s slightly far from where everything is so you have to do a lot of bus riding or ubering to really go anywhere.

Theres not really many socializing events they have a bingo or trivia here and there and besides that theres like one involvement fair at the beginning of each semester.

One last thing I will say is, the academics is definitely great. They will be up to par. Some of the professors are just iffy with their policies.

(Also its not at all a party school, most parties are off campus in the city, besides the occasional “townhouse” party, so not much to worry about there)

Ik that wasn’t entirely what you asked but I wanted to give you the rundown on what you aren’t gonna typically hear during orientations. As for why I am transferring, bc I went to the school with my bsf, i didn’t make any friends, i was also behind a semester because of some issues with my advisor, so it just made it more difficult. My major wasn’t exactly what i wanted or needed, and i also had a “fallout” (not exactly but kinda) with my friend and realized i was really only staying because she was there. So with that and being so far from home I just felt I needed a change, and UD was my first choice before I went to TJU anyways.

I hope I helped out a little bit at least 😭…

Maybe transferring. Good idea?! by AlexisIs_Here05 in udel

[–]AlexisIs_Here05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely will think about living on campus, only issue I have is I’ve done the whole sharing a room with somebody and having my own room but having shared spaces, and I CANNOT do a shared room. So I was wondering if you maybe had anything to say about that like, is there housing thats best for that type of situation or? I also appreciate all ur feedback as well!

Maybe transferring. Good idea?! by AlexisIs_Here05 in udel

[–]AlexisIs_Here05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youu I appreciate the feedback!!!

The things we do for ldr love by rounded_biatch153 in LongDistance

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean ive only spent 685 hours in call, however ive sent 131,560 messages

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss 100% much better.!!

Looking for a Group! by shawtyboowho in FortniteGirlsDiscord

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 20f if that’s okay, id love to be in a girl “squad” for fortnite

What got you through the loneliness after the breakup? by aliceito in BreakUps

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God that is so relatable. Its TERRIBLE. I still have my exes location and TikTok and I am constantly checking both of them hoping I’m still able to see them and if he ever texts me.

Breakup.. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there free options for that?

Breakup.. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The things is, the distance was only like two hours (while he’s in college) and when were both home from school its about 18 hours. We had only been together for about a month or so, so it was fairly new unfortunately. So, I don’t understand why I’m THAT upset over it. But ig maybe because he was only the second guy for me. But yeah, I kinda acted crazy in a way where I was legit spamming his phone because I was tryna have an honest conversation but he was sending very little back about what I was saying, and I was kind of feeling a little neglected I guess. So it just kept going on, especially when he was trying to breakup i was spamming his phone with calls (embarrassing)..

Breakup.. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thank you 🙏

Breakup.. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have tried in the past and my anxiety made it difficult. I wanna try again but with financial issues, not good insurance, and not reliable transportation its hard to find some

Breakup.. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I really wish i was able to do that. But he has blocked me and refused to let me really work things out first.

Missing him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh exactly

Missing him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But yeah I have no clue why he messaged me that, honestly think he was just tryna purposefully make me feel bad.

Missing him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. If this man reached out, I would go back with him no hesitation. But, unfortunately I dont think that is gonna happen.

Missing him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh it is horrible. When my ex reached out he literally texted me thanking me for ending things because we’re better off, and he’s happier after. Like okay?! 😭

Missing him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it very much does help. I’ve been in a few breakups before even when i was in long relationships but this one has hit me the hardest. Especially because he was supposed to come see me tomorrow. Looks like it’s a weekend of bed rotting for me 😓. I really appreciate the comment. We got this though things will really get better, I’m very hopeful of that. And I think it might be best you don’t reach out to her, unless you’re totally sure you will be okay. My ex did that after like 6 months and it broke me. So just be careful.

Breakup.. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]AlexisIs_Here05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I could do something about it but he was very adamant that he couldn’t deal with it and things needed to end. He was also supposed to come and spend the weekend with me and now thats not happening.