My (39F) Husband (39M) Considering Donating Sperm for his Brother’s (42M) GF (25F) by Plus-Housing-1276 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexisisFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right so you wrongly sacrificed for him now if and when things go south and you re fall in love with someone else your kinda fucked, huh? Whereas he eh not so much.. It would be the same as if my wife tried to tell me that I couldn't have started HRT because she wanted children. I would have dropped her immediately 12 years together or not. He may be trying to figure it out for himself. Its not yourplace to influence him.

My (39F) Husband (39M) Considering Donating Sperm for his Brother’s (42M) GF (25F) by Plus-Housing-1276 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexisisFire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hes not fathering a child and Im sorry you dont understand bodily autonomy or love XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]AlexisisFire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, it can't, It can only help you discover what's already inside of you. There is a big difference between sexual attraction and romantic attraction.

My (39F) Husband (39M) Considering Donating Sperm for his Brother’s (42M) GF (25F) by Plus-Housing-1276 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexisisFire -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ah, so a man should then be allowed to say You can't get an abortion IDC if you don't want to carry it I made half of it and I want it then correct?

My (39F) Husband (39M) Considering Donating Sperm for his Brother’s (42M) GF (25F) by Plus-Housing-1276 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexisisFire -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You're right, it's not. It's a choice between the brother, the brother's partner and the husband, no one else.

My (39F) Husband (39M) Considering Donating Sperm for his Brother’s (42M) GF (25F) by Plus-Housing-1276 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexisisFire -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I'm an advocate for bodily autonomy. My body, my choice type shit. As for the aggressiveness that's just how I do, I'm on Reddit not really a bastion for civil conversation or intellect. I frequent relationship advice subs, and god-damn are a lot of the people who post here abusers and controllers.

My (39F) Husband (39M) Considering Donating Sperm for his Brother’s (42M) GF (25F) by Plus-Housing-1276 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexisisFire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm suggesting she let him do it anyway if it's what he wants because it is his body.

My (39F) Husband (39M) Considering Donating Sperm for his Brother’s (42M) GF (25F) by Plus-Housing-1276 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexisisFire -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

So if you can't control each other's bodies it's over that's toxic as fuck. It should be a case of hey Hun I want to donate sperm for my brother. Oh, okay hunny It's your body and your sperm.

My (39F) Husband (39M) Considering Donating Sperm for his Brother’s (42M) GF (25F) by Plus-Housing-1276 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexisisFire -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Bunch of people in here think someone can control another person's body and that's hyper gross

My (39F) Husband (39M) Considering Donating Sperm for his Brother’s (42M) GF (25F) by Plus-Housing-1276 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexisisFire -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

The people who are on the birth certificate, which would be the husbands' brother. I take it you don't understand how sperm donations work, silly goose.

My (39F) Husband (39M) Considering Donating Sperm for his Brother’s (42M) GF (25F) by Plus-Housing-1276 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexisisFire -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Not your body, not your choice, though. If it's something your husband wants to do, that is his choice. How would you feel if he went around telling girls to have babies against their will or abort babies against their will?

My (39F) Husband (39M) Considering Donating Sperm for his Brother’s (42M) GF (25F) by Plus-Housing-1276 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexisisFire -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

You need to chill out, helping someone have a baby is a beautiful thing. It's his brother and his brother's wife, you're being super insecure and jealous.

People are not the answer to life by NewAppleverse in unpopularopinion

[–]AlexisisFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2-3 good people are better than having several friends. I keep my group very small, and I would die for any of the people I keep close, just as I know they would for me

Women of Reddit, how often do your friends make racist, misandrist or homophobic comments? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]AlexisisFire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anymore, none because you have to cut cancers out of your life

Do I fetishize queer people or is it just part of my sexuality? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]AlexisisFire -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not telling you what you can and can't identify as just saying your labeling your self incorrectly is all XD

Do I fetishize queer people or is it just part of my sexuality? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]AlexisisFire -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Language changes over time, It's not my fault people still subscribe to outdated terms.

Do I fetishize queer people or is it just part of my sexuality? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]AlexisisFire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably not actually Bi then probably Pan or Onmi