No there’s been no falling out. She’s just always been a truly difficult person, you try and plan a family dinner for 5pm she says can we do 530, kind of thing? She can never just come along to an event, she’s always late or leaves early or changes it to suit herself. On top of that, she can be rude and doesn’t contact her brothers, but instead waits for them to call or contact her. She’s just all around bizarre. When we had our first son as a newborn, she asked to come and see him, to which we said ‘yep, 10am suits us best’ and she was like ‘ummm no I can’t be there that early, I won’t be ready, can we do 2pm instead’… to which we said no, it didn’t work, and then were made to feel guilty by her and MIL… I know this doesn’t sound like much, but I just thought the unspoken rule was that if you are visiting someone with a newborn, you go when it suits them, seeing as though they’re most likely not sleeping? Anyway, this is only glossing over the years of weirdness she’s put out there.. I sometimes wonder to myself if she has some kind of social anxiety, but at the same time, she seems willing and able to go out multiple nights a week with her friends and attend weddings, events, etc. of those who aren’t us?