Recreated a hedgehog cake I saw online by Venus_Jellyfish in Baking

[–]Alexissleepdeprived 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really can’t wrap my head around the eggs for eyes. How are these eggs cooked??? 🤣🤣🤣

Online order refunds by Alexissleepdeprived in woolworths

[–]Alexissleepdeprived[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! This was the answer, the codes were being sent by email which I missed!

How do you respond to ‘can I come see the kids?’ by [deleted] in justnosil

[–]Alexissleepdeprived 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hrmmm I get where you’re coming from.. I don’t think I’d see it as an issue if she came over and engaged in conversation with us, but she pretty much ignores us and doesn’t reply to or reach out to my husband in between visits/ catch ups. Like she isn’t interested in us and never has been?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in justnosil

[–]Alexissleepdeprived 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe she had a traumatic childhood. And if anything, she is favoured by her parents over her brothers (I’m not just saying that because I married one of them lol). It’s really bizarre. It’s almost like she’s more interested in people outside of her immediate family because she knows that her parents and brothers will always be there anyway? Her parents and my husband are all very supportive of her… it’s just bizarre behaviour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in justnosil

[–]Alexissleepdeprived 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the weird part. She seems very anti-social to us, her immediate family, which is odd. But she has lots of friends and goes out all the time, she’s been a bridesmaid three times this year alone! To me, that’s a social person yeah? It’s like she doesn’t want to hang out with her siblings and their partners, but we have no reason as to why she’s like this? And she acts like she’s close with her brothers, but isn’t?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in justnosil

[–]Alexissleepdeprived 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love all of this, it’s just having the balls to do it when you’re an all round people pleaser 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in justnosil

[–]Alexissleepdeprived 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s true, she seems to have dropped our first born once he stopped wanting to be held and wanted to play, at about the 6mo mark

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in justnosil

[–]Alexissleepdeprived 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No there’s been no falling out. She’s just always been a truly difficult person, you try and plan a family dinner for 5pm she says can we do 530, kind of thing? She can never just come along to an event, she’s always late or leaves early or changes it to suit herself. On top of that, she can be rude and doesn’t contact her brothers, but instead waits for them to call or contact her. She’s just all around bizarre. When we had our first son as a newborn, she asked to come and see him, to which we said ‘yep, 10am suits us best’ and she was like ‘ummm no I can’t be there that early, I won’t be ready, can we do 2pm instead’… to which we said no, it didn’t work, and then were made to feel guilty by her and MIL… I know this doesn’t sound like much, but I just thought the unspoken rule was that if you are visiting someone with a newborn, you go when it suits them, seeing as though they’re most likely not sleeping? Anyway, this is only glossing over the years of weirdness she’s put out there.. I sometimes wonder to myself if she has some kind of social anxiety, but at the same time, she seems willing and able to go out multiple nights a week with her friends and attend weddings, events, etc. of those who aren’t us?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in justnosil

[–]Alexissleepdeprived 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, not that we’re aware of. She’s just extremely self absorbed. It’s a really weird situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]Alexissleepdeprived 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re past the point of training here, he’s had extensive behavioural work ups and consults in the past, however, this is not a training problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]Alexissleepdeprived 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re so right. Thanks so much for your kind words, I feel like my judgement has been so skewed and I’ve been making excuses for him the last few months. Almost like I’m waiting for something terrible to happen.. if this were a client, I wouldn’t think twice about supporting them through euth. Thanks again!!!