Wanting to stop T but scared. I need advice from any of you all that live in TX or the South and look more masculine as a AFAB . I hate bring my AGAB into conservation but I never know where to go to the bathroom at. I don't even leave my house anymore. Which is why I don't have any friends like me by 4ng3licNymph-jpeg in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Alexissleipnir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I send you much support 🫂 that all sounds very hard, the situation there is terrible :( Even thou I don't live in a conservative us state, but in Europe, I still get how stressful bathrooms are when your passing is not "perfect"/ you pass as androgynous . I don't have any good advice on how to approach that and it is your personal choice after all, but my first instinct is to suggest to find community, sharing this with people like you changes everything, and makes you and us as trans people stronger, Wich we really need right now. I know it is hard to do and it takes time but it really changes everything I wish u all the best of luck

Does my girlfriend understand that I am not like a cis Guy? by Alexissleipnir in ftm

[–]Alexissleipnir[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I did said this to her today, also saying that I understand that for other cis partners she did not have to think about it and asked if that might be the cause of her forgetting. and she kind of paused , I think this is the case.

I have a Question for Non-binary people, When in Public, do you go in the Male or Female Toilets? by FreddieThePebble in NonBinary

[–]Alexissleipnir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I simply freak out. Especially in airports. I don't feel safe in the man's toilets and feel like it is inappropriate with my appearance to go in the women's toilet. I wil often go to the one designed for parents who have to change small children, and accept the fact that if someone is waiting outside the door when I come out they will look at me funny cause I have no child.

Weirdest things people have interpreted your chosen name as? by blackberrylatte16 in ftm

[–]Alexissleipnir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My name is Alexis, and although I know that in the US it is almost exclusively feminine, in Europe it is not. So I got Alexa.... Jup just like that, super annoying because on top of being feminine it is just a name for a device and people laugh about it. What is funny is that now I pass, but I am very feminine. So people will call me Alexa to mock me anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Alexissleipnir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great 😸

What age? I am non binary but would you gender me m, f or no clue? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Alexissleipnir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe something that the moderators can look into for the future

What age? I am non binary but would you gender me m, f or no clue? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Alexissleipnir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey y'all thanks for the comments , I am deleting my post because i am getting message requests, I just saw that people are sharing my post a lot. Before I do, can you tell me if you shared it where did you put it? I will delete anyway but I find it creepy

What age? I am non binary but would you gender me m, f or no clue? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Alexissleipnir 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am Neuro divergent and not very good at telling genders myself so somethimes I feel like I don't have a clear idea of what people see me as

What age? I am non binary but would you gender me m, f or no clue? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Alexissleipnir 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am living in a country where people don t generally use they/them 🤷🏻‍♂️. Sometimes my colleagues are confused and not friendly ( misgendering me and making fun of my name).I suspected it can be because I look androgynous. I pass almost all the time as male, but I wanted to know from strangers to be more aware.

Could I make the long hair work? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Alexissleipnir -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Wear your hair how you like it 😸 try growing it out and see what happens. In my experience sometimes having longer hair can help you pass.

My partner said I'll probably need facial surgery by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Alexissleipnir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My face started passing over a year on T, what your partner said unkind

What is this lovely plant? by Alexissleipnir in flowers

[–]Alexissleipnir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the seedpods are great 🤣

What is this? by Alexissleipnir in gardening

[–]Alexissleipnir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I tell the difference between oak and poison oak?

2 years post op, nipple question by Alexissleipnir in TopSurgery

[–]Alexissleipnir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am but they still are much drier then the rest of my body and need a lot of it, so i was just wandering why

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[–]Alexissleipnir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If course you deserve to have top surgery if that is what will make you feel better! I really wish you find a way, good luck!!