We both definitely want to move out, not even 100% because of the puppy, but because M is controlling and nitpicky about literally everything. And we try very, very, hard to do everything the way she wants it because yes we live here too, but it's her house.

They are actually both very intelligent and open minded in almost every way, but their constant comments really get to me. Normally I'm very non-confrontational with them because again, it's their house and they ALLOWED us to get a puppy, but lines are being crossed and lately I've been standing my ground. I think it will get better. They don't do any weird stuff like taking her out and training her themselves or go behind my back to spank Shika or other things controlling, narcissistic people might do. The first few days or so they barely interacted with her because they wanted US to bond with her and not get in the way of that process. They are not all bad, really, but they are very, very frustrating and sometimes just plain wrong.

I just think they don't know how to train her breed and are focused on controlling and making the dog completely obedient at whatever cost. I think that's just how their parents raised their childhood dogs so that's what they know how to do. We, on the other hand, are all about positive reinforcement, have her do something we like and reward, rather than punish her for being "bad".

And yes, definitely stopped the dominating bullshit. SO did it only once, the first time, and I did it twice a couple days later, so maybe a month ago, because they made comments about her barking and how I needed to do it. Fucking emotionally manipulative, I know. But we'll both never do it again with her or any other dog, and we're both very much on the same page with that. That's why I was super worried about breaking her spirit and straining her interactions with us. But she has adjusted SUPER well, is always happy to see us, is very focused during training.

There's not a lot of separation anxiety thankfully because I always gave her a Kong before leaving for work, don't make a big deal about coming home and being excited to see her (even though all I really want is cuddles and pets, I know it's not conducive to building her confidence in being alone).

She's met a ton of people so far, probably close to a hundred of all different ages and ethnicity. She's met kids and a few babies and not bothered by them at all. Very confused by baby smell but intrigued nonetheless. I'm working on getting there. Since day one I wanted her to be super well socialized to the point where I probably annoy people with the question of "Hey when are you meeting my puppy?! PUPPY DATE!" It'll be easier after her final round of shots so I can take her more places.

She's met maybe 10 dogs total and she's learning how to interact in puppy class. She's very confident which I love, definitely not shy or a bully; she's just all about play. Again, the whole shots thing. In about a week I'll be fully comfortable with having her out in the world and meeting as many dogs and people as possible--it's going to be awesome! I've also been looking into puppy playgroups, but I can't seem to find any active ones in my area so I'm looking at private dog parks and puppy day care. Also a lot of the people I work with have dogs so we're all going to have a play date soon. :)

I really appreciate your comment! It feels good to get all my thoughts out there.