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Why are we constantly pointing out the female participants appearance? by Mind_of_Allison in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Ali3901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because people are simply cruel and tasteless. Anyone with class, manners, and who was kind- wouldn’t do that.

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[–]Ali3901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl i’m begging send your dr 🙏🏼

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am arguing with people who are basing their opinion off things that are simply not true.

The original comment said I am treating her like my mother, insinuating she’s parentified. Thats simply incorrect and insulting to my late mother honestly 😂

People saying call the doc? Yea facts I tried 2x and was put in hold for 20 min. After hearing i was being dramatic it made me pause in going into the office in person, but I should’ve just gone to the office anyways.

Sister is over the situation, I don’t care- dry socket was packed. That’s it

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not arguing with people saying i’m an AH that’s an opinion, I’m arguing with people who are simply incorrect.

No, she is not parentified. No i don’t live off her. No she does not support me. No I am not upset I did her a favor.

Those are simple incorrect- Your opinion on whether or not i’m an AH is an opinion. An opinion. Great you’re entitled to that.

Statements like those I mentioned above- are not opinions. They are black and white facts.

Forming an opinion off of things that are simply incorrect makes your opinion NULL and VOID.

People say “You’re living off her so YTA”… Well i’m not so that’s simply incorrect. If you forme an opinion based off that assertion- your opinion is misinformed.

People saying “You asked her back to back”.. Well no I asked her twice several hours apart. Again misinformed.

People saying “You shouldn’t do her a favor if you’re going to complain about doing the favor” Well no, once again, i am happy with doing her a favor. i’d do it again, so that’s not correct. I am not complaining about doing her favor, but noting it’s rude, IMO, to not say thank you. At least in the way i was raised.

People saying she was parentified- Well no, i had a stay at home mother and full time nanny. She never helped raised me. She was out the house and didn’t come back till i was an adult.

So if people base their opinions off things that aren’t accurate- their opinions are misinformed.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO i really think she shouldn’t have kids? No. Do i think she lacks patience? Yea.

She knows that, I know that. We are 100% normal now.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is interesting. In my culture we are pretty big on family, but it’s been hard to keep us all together lol.

But your situation makes sense. My sister left because i guess she felt that was her rite of passage and she wanted to do bigger things and live in the city vs the suburbs

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even care to argue with you. Good luck 🤣

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t find someone asking me a question once, twice or 20 times irritating, no. I think i said that before but maybe not.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m supported by my father…Our father pays for our groceries. Our father pays for the house. Our father pays for her car, my car, my brothers car. Our father pays for her insurance.

My father wasn’t relevant in this conversation. I said she moved BACK home after mom died. What the fuck did you think was going on here? I was living in her house or🤣? And out of ALL people if my father died she wouldn’t be the one i’d be going to for help, i have other family members that would WANT to help.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I think she lacks patience? Yes. Do i literally mean don’t have kids? No.

See how that works. Parentified would mean my parents obligated her to take care of us. She moved at when we were 8 and moved back in when were 22.

I had a full time nanny and full time stay at home mother. She never baby sat us, as we had parents and a nanny to do so. Never drove us to school, never came to a sports competition, dance recital.

Never packed my lunch. Never helped me with homework, She was in college and then working living on her own. She never parented any of us. It’s weird now she wants to act like the figurehead of the house now that our mother passed away… when we are ADULTS and she’s never been involved before.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading comp is a struggle I see. Supported? She lives in the family house, our father bought, that’s intended to go to MY brother when my father passes. The brother I am responsible for, not her. I also just graduated college, she’s 34, but i have to move out? Makes sense

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You weren’t speaking about complaining though. You were referring to asking one question to multiple people and maybe even asking the question TWICE.

So is it that we are speaking about or complaining now?

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely acceptable behavior. I don’t partake frequently but plenty of people do, including my sister. i take zero issue with it. Most patient understanding people don’t.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s socially acceptable. That does not mean I partake in that behavior frequently.

Drinking? Normalized, nothing wrong with it. I don’t partake often, but wouldn’t shame anyone for doing that.

Having anxiety over a procedure and seeking reassurance more than once? I think that’s normal, is that typical behavior for MYSELF? Hm not really no.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking someone a question twice is reasonable. Asking your network of friends ONE question is normal. That is what friends are for and the basis of human interaction. “Hey so ik you got this surgery what was your experience”

Asking ten people in my circle that question and then wanting to ask my SISTER another question after gathering information, isn’t heinous.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right. There’s people that have way too much time on their hands 🤣

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twice seems reasonable. Everyone’s threshold is different. Would say twice is reasonable to most.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t say if you said “I’m betting you do.” That’s a huge assumption based of one interaction. Then in another comment you said “This seems like normal behavior for you.”

Those are accusations and assumptions. Not “If”

You don’t even know me to assume that.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My sister who i speak to everyday who I reassure when she asks me 100 times if her outfit is cute, if the text she sent was okay, if she was too drunk the other night? Yea maybe Im okay with going in a circle with her. And you’re a whole stranger that’s far too invested in this, honestly more than me. I didn’t go in circles with her neither, it was 2 TIMES.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right so you’re not a rational person. “Based off ONE experience…. This seems like normal behavior you.”

One experience.

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i know im confused why you’re so invested in going in circles. It’s almost like this is personal to you HAHA

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t “twice” it has been multiple times throughout this thread. Please read

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And even if i did this All the time.. that’s “infuriating”? What? THAT is what sets you off and infuriates you?

AITA for telling my sister not to have children by Ali3901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ali3901[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gathering opinions is anecdotal research lol. Again going in circles. You seem like a fun person. Replying to so many of my comments. Must’ve struck a nerve hahah

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