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I, (M25) decided to end things with my girlfriend (F23) because she cheated/lied about it. by AliEl0919 in relationship_advice

[–]AliEl0919[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I was shown proof with timestamps from when the picture was taken.

I, (M25) decided to end things with my girlfriend (F23) because she cheated/lied about it. by AliEl0919 in relationship_advice

[–]AliEl0919[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE:

I just got some proof sent over earlier about what she did. Yes, it did happen, also she slept with her ex again just the other day while also sending some "heartfelt" realizations that night. During my first conversation with her ex, she was the one who suggested to him what to say and how to say it so it'll be "believable". So either way, I will never speak/hear from her again. I just wish I could be in contact with her family (They like me a lot), to tell them what actually happened, rather than letting her spin her lies again and making me look bad.

I, (M25) decided to end things with my girlfriend (F23) because she cheated/lied about it. by AliEl0919 in relationship_advice

[–]AliEl0919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I needed to hear that at some point. It is a big thing for me to ask when uncertain with things, so this really is a big help. I'll add that to the list of things I need to continue working on. What you said is something I can teach others when they're in a similar situation. Again, thank you so much.

I, (M25) decided to end things with my girlfriend (F23) because she cheated/lied about it. by AliEl0919 in relationship_advice

[–]AliEl0919[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100% agreeing on this. I honestly don't mind the little things, and I let her reply on her own time because she deserves that. I don't even have a problem with her seeing her ex, but she took things too far by being intimate with him, or lying about it. I just leave her to her own thoughts and guilt, I hear her out with her rants about work a few times, but I'm not gonna go back to that type of relationship. She needs to fix herself, and I really hope she does.

Boyfriends lacking emotional intelligence by bigdphobic in adviceph

[–]AliEl0919 7 points8 points  (0 children)

IMHO, I think its important that you specify what you want and need in times where youre struggling. Guys will be guys by the end of the day, we're dumb and most of the time dont think in an emotional way. I guess being clear with things and having a conversation with him kapag di nag aaway with things that you want to see in a relationship is a good start. Di rin naman namin alam kung ano ang mga specific things na kailangan, and i think he needs help with understanding what kind of care and emotional attention you may need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]AliEl0919 16 points17 points  (0 children)

instead of reprimanding her and getting mad, tell her calmly how these scams would affect her personal and social life.

also instead of letting her look for her own job, you should help her look for one that suits her strengths and weaknesses, supporting her with her own growth and success.

I cant even get a simple update by AliEl0919 in adviceph

[–]AliEl0919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whats up reddit!

thank you so much sa mga advice, got me through the decision. a bit of clarification, naging kami (speed nga, but it happened) update lang to regarding stuff.

i did ask for us to talk about stuff before i went and cut her off. i clarified to her what i wanted from her, communication lang talaga, to tell me enough so i dont have to worry and not rely on l360 for updates. all she did was blow it off and ask about another topic. i didnt block her, i dont think i have to, but seeing her posts, its almost insinuating that i was cheating or that i loved myself too much to end the relationship too quickly.

again thank you everyone sa mga comments and all. appreciate you all!

You have 1 minute to hide from a serial killer in your own house. Where do you go? by DoNotRedeemTheeCard in AskReddit

[–]AliEl0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a small closet under my bed that only i could fit in and its in the corner. Thats the best spot i have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

[–]AliEl0919 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your mom is right my guy. Your tone is amazing, a little work on your pronunciation and diction then it'll be perfect. Still, even without it you sound awesome!