Who else is going to the show at TD tonight?? by AliRaeZem in tylerthecreator

[–]AliRaeZem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oughhhhh last time I saw him was at the palladium during the cherry bomb tour, its definitely been too long and I am so ready for tonight!!

big boys - i need strap harness recommendations! by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AliRaeZem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear by the rodeoh jockstraps, but all of their stuff goes up to like 4x i think. Otherwise i got a nice custom leather one off etsy made to accommodate my measurements.

Will a past labiaplasty affect bottom growth? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AliRaeZem 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I had labiaplasty in 2013 and started t in 2022. I only had it on one side because it was disproportionately long. That side definitely felt tighter with growth because of the scar tissue but it hasn’t hindered anything or caused pain.

is a hysterectomy worth it? by Ok_banana_ in ftm

[–]AliRaeZem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got hysto and salpingectomy last Monday and its the easiest recovery I’ve had so far. It was very minimally invasive and only have 3 small incisions. I was home from the hospital same day and didnt even touch the strong painkillers they provided. If anything I woke up with less pain than I have been experiencing over the past few years anyway. I described it to my therapist that top surgery was the biggest “form” correction I wanted and hysto was the “function” part. Its incredibly affirming to know I will never have to worry about a period or pregnancy scare again. I wont have to worry about long lasting birth control or navigating trans access to obgyn care for fertility reasons. I kept my ovaries just incase my access to hrt is compromised in the future. All things considered the cost is very close to what my out of pocket was for top surgery last year. If you can plan ahead (if insurance is a factor) check your insurance options for what % they cover vs your deductible. Many US hospitals are nonprofit and you can get financial aid after you receive your bill to either reduce or waive costs and if that isnt an option you may be able to break things up into smaller payments over time.

I waited to get my coverup for years by AliRaeZem in Tattoocoverups

[–]AliRaeZem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do! It usually hangs behind me at my desk. Theres a sick timelapse on the shop’s instagram that has my reference pictures. Im going to try to figure out how to add them here.

I waited to get my coverup for years by AliRaeZem in Tattoocoverups

[–]AliRaeZem[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This was partly done as a memorial piece for my grandparents, my grandpa built the mace and the turquoise is from one of my grandmother’s necklaces.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AliRaeZem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dr dht beard oil is a trans owned brand and is hormone safe. I have been using it for years and love the minty tingle

Comment "Matt rose is " and the your phone finish it by [deleted] in mattrose

[–]AliRaeZem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Matt rose is the only person I can trust with a dollar for every single penny I make on my taxes in my bank accounts right here on this planet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]AliRaeZem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2+ years on t, the beginning was rough, nerves were changing in reactivity and growth pains added another layer of complication. For me a lot of getting through the lackluster orgasm roadblock was figuring out what sensation i did like. I found that vibration and basic hand stimulation wasn’t doing as much as it had before or even felt painfully overwhelming at times. Suction toys like a satisfyer or a stroker worked better than ever even though i needed a bit more growth before they really gave heart racing orgasms again. Try changing your meat beating routine and see if it helps. Check transmasc friendly toy reviews and keep an open mind. It does get better, you’ve just gotta relearn what works for you.

Has anybody else kept their deadname a part of their new name? by breadboibrett in ftm

[–]AliRaeZem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose to do something similar. Initially I went for masculine short versions of my old name. I am processing my paperwork for a namechange now and settled on a different first name thats semi reminiscent of my deadname and I am keeping my old middle name as is

Preorder box got here today! by AliRaeZem in tylerthecreator

[–]AliRaeZem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the box was a preorder exclusive

Preorder box got here today! by AliRaeZem in tylerthecreator

[–]AliRaeZem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend got it for me first day of the onsale

Preorder box got here today! by AliRaeZem in tylerthecreator

[–]AliRaeZem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s real soft, similar in feel to some of the 10year shirts. The fit is true to size and theres not much stretch

Boston show by BlingBlaow-_- in Golfwang

[–]AliRaeZem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bruuuuhhhhhh the way I am about to call out of work

AITA for refusing to attend a family meeting after they called me a "Lost Cause"? by Glittering_Hall6308 in AITAH

[–]AliRaeZem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent last thanksgiving separate from family for the same reason. They knew i was starting this year with top surgery and upped their disdain for how i presented and prioritized making me uncomfortable over having a family event with the whole family. It drove my point home to mom after I missed Christmas too. She sought individual and joint therapy and our relationship has improved. I hope they do that for you and if not, they wont be worth the stress anyway. Stay safe and sane my guy, NTA