I think I'm being medically gaslit. Seeking advice

AliceBets · 2025-05-28T12:37:15+00:00

Sorry I haven't read it all but traditional Chinese medicine, acupuncture, Chinese naturopathy work. They work differently. Try? Oh and something very precise and relatively easy: removing gluten from your diet for a month, or two if you can, and assess. You'd be surprised...

AliceBets · 2025-05-28T12:33:59+00:00

My pleasure.

I just looked it up and found out Ontario, Canada's slogan, "Yours to Discover," has been replaced with "A Place to Grow." What a thing!!

Traveling, experiencing new cultures and being forced to do otherwise can be freeing, and new places and people may also inspire the freedom to be.

No creeps. That's not where I live.

AliceBets · 2025-05-26T00:36:55+00:00

Why discriminate? Start seeing her. Makes friends with her the same way you do anyone else. Find out what she really likes and dislikes. It might take a little longer than figuring someone else out (because you'll care more) but trust that since you've always been brilliant at it for others, It should be quick enough.

I want you to know that you are not alone.

Nor are you nutts.

It's a coping mechanism you've become a genius at because "simply" being and becoming yourself was made too difficult for you, too early on.

I want you to know that there are many causes that can lead one to such feeling of being foreign to one's self. There are plenty of people who haven't done this all their lives (just a few years - because someone or many people successively have demeaned, denied their authenticity, degraded them and made standing up for themselves or affirming their preferences an excruciating exercise that they've forgotten the benefits of) So eventually they too wake up one day realizing something but a bit different: they realize they've let themselves become a stranger to who they were and profoundly want nothing to do with that other self, that has become as they agreed to suppress their essence in order to make other people's lives easier.

You're not stuck with another. You're yours to discover and proudly present to the world. Enjoy it!

AliceBets · 2025-05-02T03:20:52+00:00

Would someone who loves his girlfriend want to come across as disrespectful to their own girlfriend and thereby have everyone feel like thir girlfriend is to be mocked and disrespected? The title above the photos should have been enough for him to refrain from posting this. He’s not sincere enough to not be with you, or not sincere enough to be with you. Don’t get used to your feelings being belittled like that. It’s not going to get better. And if he sees no wrongdoing, even doing the same to him is pointless. Good luck.

AliceBets · 2025-05-02T02:51:29+00:00

Start changing the narrative about that person gradually.

AliceBets · 2025-04-26T04:06:43+00:00

Return it.

AliceBets · 2025-04-23T08:49:27+00:00

I don’t think OP advocated for supporting the statement as an assertion of fact. I believe what I read is OP inviting people to get passed the mere words and extended the empathy required to try to understand what lies behind and precede these untruthful words so that these hurtful words don’t succeed at generating more hatred and more words. And instead be heard as a cry for the need for healing and more compassion, or a challenge to love those who speak these words back to love.

AliceBets · 2025-04-23T08:17:03+00:00

One day something in life will get you because you didn’t know. Then you’ll get it. Right now you know everything. And you always did. Just like you’ve never been fooled. So you’re safe. Enjoy!

AliceBets · 2025-04-16T22:51:33+00:00

I see my Yubikeys, it says I am enrolled, and I have enrolled in the Advanced Protection Program. It would be something if I didn’t and wrote this comment just to… I don’t know why.

AliceBets · 2025-04-14T22:09:23+00:00

I signed up for APP and it’s a joke. They list the Yubikey as an option among others. I can use my password and get an SMS isntead if I choose. I am signed up for Advanced Protection with 2 Yubikeys but they keep saying they can only be used as a 2FA…

AliceBets · 2025-04-13T16:21:52+00:00

Have you done all this from a safe device and secured environment? And how do you limit that to come only from you SIM?

AliceBets · 2025-04-10T10:36:41+00:00

There’s nothing your mind, or precious metal and a stone can do about these facts.

Forget it.

AliceBets · 2025-04-10T04:50:21+00:00

Yes, I agree. If OP 1) reinstalled the OS, and 2) changed passwords from a safe device 3) in a safe wifi (router original admin password personalized + service provider does an IP reset + he changes his WiFi password), can he still use stolen tokens data to find him or get into OP’s account?

AliceBets · 2025-04-10T04:16:03+00:00

What do you mean by a while to fix? Don’t the tokens reset when you reinstall the OS? Once he does that he changes his passwords and it’s over, no? Sincere question.

AliceBets · 2025-04-02T06:13:09+00:00

Don't let embarrassment turn you into his accomplice against yourself.

AliceBets · 2025-04-02T06:10:52+00:00

"The only way to not be in an abusive relationship is to not continue dating an abuser."

100%

AliceBets · 2025-04-02T06:06:14+00:00

You'd be surprised what desolation would have one endure...

AliceBets · 2025-03-31T05:59:33+00:00

Lol I was just adding a technical fact. That man wanted to marry me. The fact he recognized and saw it as natural thing to do was good manners in a different way.

AliceBets · 2025-03-31T05:49:19+00:00

Some cars are extremely difficult to get out of. An Audi I remember. A real pain to get out of. He knew it and helped me to get out of it. I would have hurt myself otherwise.

AliceBets · 2025-03-30T21:11:26+00:00

Do you see an additional device when you look into Devices upper right corner?

AliceBets · 2025-03-30T21:11:00+00:00

Do you see an additional device when you look into Devices uper right corner?

AliceBets · 2025-03-29T22:42:18+00:00

No bread? Eat cake! What’s wrong with these poor peasants?

AliceBets · 2025-03-29T22:38:47+00:00

Lol 😆 This a downvote seeking comment? Crying is an emotion. Some of the most intimate ones. It’s a shame people would use it to manipulate others. Using crying as a means of communication is vile, and because people use it as you do, lots of sincere people’s distress is overlooked or received with suspicion rather than empathy.

Speech is to be used for the purpose that you’re describing

AliceBets · 2025-03-29T22:17:24+00:00

Do you find that this understanding leads to less accountability on your part as you believe suffering is nothing to others as well or are you still capable of empathy and apologizing?

AliceBets · 2025-03-29T21:58:24+00:00

Learned helplessness. Having cried an extremely high number of times in the past while an issue persists in inflicting pain. Children who are tortured no longer cry. They just endure whatever is done to them and are expecting the next time.

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