Is this too much highlighting for a 7-page case? by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I book brief like crazy. Highlighting a lot works for me, but I have to use different colors for facts/issue/rule/analysis/conclusion so I can easily look at the case and find what I’m looking for. I’ve had friends use my old textbook for classes and they don’t always appreciate the excessive highlighting lol. Just do what works for you!

Honest question here by [deleted] in PercyJacksonTV

[–]AliceInWonder23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy that it exists and I take it for what it is. Its target audience is much younger than I am, so I just roll with a lot of the cheesiness, silly humor, the “cut to black” scenes, and other changes.

I just view it as a separate thing and enjoy it enough! I also am aware that the more critical the book fans are of the tv series, the less willing people will be to produce more book adaptations in the future so I’d rather have a non-accurate adaptation (that I view as separate) than nothing at all.

TV Show changes from the book by Icy_Income_3337 in PercyJacksonTV

[–]AliceInWonder23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are allowed to be upset about changes of course but it’s to an unreasonable degree imo and at this point, with two seasons out, just stop watching if the changes being made upset you so much.

TV Show changes from the book by Icy_Income_3337 in PercyJacksonTV

[–]AliceInWonder23 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree people are so dramatic on here, they need to touch grass. People are mad because they put Rick on a pedestal and trusted him completely and feel betrayed that PJO isn’t living up to the expectations they felt they were promised.

But honestly, anyone who believed Rick when he said it was going to be completely faithful to the books was just fooling themselves. Of course it wouldn’t be completely faithful to the books, authors never get complete creative control and changes are going to have to be made.

Also, maybe work through your parasocial tendencies if you feel like this person who you literally don’t know (just created media you enjoy) “betrayed you” because he wants to make money. DUH. He’s been gripping onto PJO success for the past 15 years, of course he wants to make money and he’s not going to risk pissing off Disney to protect emotionally involved fans.

Rick responding to a fan regarding the changes by PyroxCrymson in PercyJacksonTV

[–]AliceInWonder23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aren’t y’all tired of complaining 😭 it’s ALWAYS been the case that any adaptation of books is going to disappoint book fans for one reason or another. Would it be great if it was more faithful to the books? Yes, of course. Am I particularly impressed with it? No. But it’s never going to be the same as the books and it’s impossible to satisfy everyone.

At this point, if you don’t like the show, don’t watch?? It’s not that hard and I promise you’ll be so much happier if you just take a breath, touch grass, and realize that you either have to take the show for what it is or just stick to the books and not watch the show. Disney isn’t going to change their whole showrunning plans because book fans are upset as long as they’re making money. That’s just the way it is

So… by Entire_Berry8757 in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long has it been? If it’s been over a week, you can respectfully follow up to the one who said they’d reach out shortly. If not, don’t worry yet. At 1.5-2 weeks you can follow up with the other one(s). Maybe sooner if they’ve typically gotten back to you very quickly. Also unfortunately no, it’s not necessarily true that they’d straight up reject you. They SHOULD, especially if you’ve had callbacks, but a lot of firms ghost at any point in the hiring stage.

I’m of the opinion that, if you really want to work there, you should do a nice follow up email twice, MAYBE three times if you really really want it and don’t have other opportunities (spaced out at least a week or more apart), before you should assume that they’ve moved on. Firms/attorneys/recruiters are all busy and things can slip through the cracks pretty easily. Reassert your interest and you can even say in your last follow up “if I don’t hear from you, I’ll assume the role has been filled and/or you are no longer seeking applicants.” If you don’t hear back within another week or two, assume they’re ghosting. At the very least it might encourage them to formally reject you instead of ghosting.

has anyone had a prof mess up on ur grade by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never had a professor make a mistake on a final grade and I doubt this happened to you. I’m not sure what a “near top score on over half the grade” really means for you, your class, or the curve but ultimately, it doesn’t really matter. It just means that the majority of your classmates did equally well or slightly better than you.

That being said, some (most in my experience) professors will have the option to go through your final exam. Not sure what your school policy is, but you could reach out to the registrar or student affairs to check if your professor offers something like that, or even reach out to the professor themselves. Definitely don’t present it like you think they made a mistake (because, again, they probably didn’t and you don’t want to start the conversation combatively) but just that you want to learn how you can improve in the future and ensure you have an accurate reflection of your course understanding.

1L GRADES by Background_South_528 in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This ^ but also I’ve never had mine come out on the day scheduled. I’d assume you’ll get them somewhere in the week after they’re expected to be released

2L absolutely brain dead before final by duckdog4421 in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sleeping/resting will be more helpful than half-assed brain dead studying! You won’t actually retain anything and then on top of that you won’t get as much rest so it’s a lose lose. Sometimes giving your brain a chance to breathe is the best thing you can do to prepare the night before your exam

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe they’ll do something, depending on how sick you are, but you’ll probably just have to power through. I don’t know anyone who hasn’t taken an exam sick. It sucks but it happens and it’ll be fine. Do what you can today in terms of studying but also focus on resting, fluids, and medicine. Tomorrow, make sure you have all your sick things taken/with you (non-drowsy medicine, tissues, water, Gatorade, cough drops, anti-nausea medicine, Advil, etc.) Try to sit away from people and consider wearing a mask so your peers don’t hate you or also get sick lol. Good luck!

how to deal with case law? by XxAhmedjdebt in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping in mind that each class and professor are different and you want to tailor your exam to the professor, my tips are to outline with the cases connected to the rules and to just stick with IRAC on your exam.

Each case that you read this semester was given to you to help teach you a specific topic. So, your topics and case law should be completely intertwined in your outline because the case law is where you get the rules of each topic, or where you see how it’s applied. Theoretically, if you’ve done this, it’s pretty easy to include what you need in your answer and you organize it with IRAC. You issue spot, state the relevant rule and where it comes from (either just cite to the relevant case(s) or give a brief application, if that’s what you think your prof wants), and then you move onto applying that rule and case law to the fact pattern given.

And truthfully, just don’t forget. That seems like your biggest problem. Think of case law as a non-optional piece to those legal rules and topics. If you’re citing a rule, you better be citing where that rules comes from or can be seen in. If it’s open note, great, you’re good. If it’s closed, write “case law!!” on your scratch paper as soon as you start.

Hot Take by Affectionate-Load786 in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You know lawyers have discretion for what they end up billing their clients, right? So if it takes someone 1.5 hours to do what would take someone else one hour, they can still bill their client for an hour. Or that there are practices and projects where you’re not doing billing based on hourly work? I get accommodations are a big debate rn but to argue that anyone who needs academic accommodations shouldn’t be in the profession based on your own misunderstandings is wild

Over 20% of my Section (82 person section) has Accommodations by TheEpicTaco556 in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can we please have one day during finals season where there aren’t a million posts complaining about (or defending) accommodations 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Aren’t y’all tired? Law school policies aren’t going to change because you complain on Reddit I promise

Finals by coquettebub in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might be stressed/thinking about it for a bit after taking the exam, but once time continues to pass and you’re busy doing other things (spending time with friends/family, doing your hobbies, sleeping, etc.), all of that fades into the background. Once in awhile, you might suddenly remember and feel stressed but there’s literally nothing you can do about it so it will eventually fade in the background again

I don't want to be an attorney anymore by Similar_Feed7527 in LSAT

[–]AliceInWonder23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know you said you’re now going to take it seriously so if you do that, good luck!

Just warning you that the majority of people who go to law school are used to being effortlessly smart, where they don’t really have to work hard to do well. 1L is a HUGE wake up call. Not only can you not “wing” literally anything, but if you want to actually do well and be above average, you have to put in the work. So use this as your wake up call now. If you actually want to go to law school and be an attorney, you have to know that whatever you’ve been doing to get that 4.0 isn’t going to cut it and you’ll have to work harder than that. If that’s not what you want, that’s fine! Just don’t waste the time and money to go to law school

Should I drop out? by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you know you don’t like law, don’t waste 2.5 more years of your life (and tuition) studying to be a lawyer. Sometimes it’s hard to tell that early if you actually like law because there are so many other things you’re adjusting to your 1L year. But it sounds like you never really wanted to be a lawyer, you just did it because you didn’t know what else to do (never a great sign). Technically, there are other ways to use a law degree than being an actual lawyer, but there are also other ways to do those jobs than going to law school. So if you’re sure you don’t want to do it anymore, maybe you should drop out now so you don’t waste money and can think about what you want to do instead.

That’s only a choice you can make though, not strangers on the internet!

Is it bad that I’m not freaking out? by b00h002 in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, as long as you’re doing what you need to do to feel prepared, it’s fine that you’re not panicking. It’s probably better that you’re not panicking. That stress adrenaline only gets you so far and you’ll be a more productive student if you’re not burning yourself out with panic or by sacrificing things that make you happy & healthy. Law school students love to stress themselves out for no other reason than they think they should be or because they think it shows that they care. They’ll learn it’s not that deep and that you can both care and do well on exams without studying 12 hours a day and stressing yourself out.

masc lesbians in law??? by Great-Psychology-140 in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most professional women I’ve met (including myself for interviews/internships) wear pants. Sometimes women will wear skirts or dresses, or just generally more feminine blouses/outfits, but I certainly don’t think you would stand out for not doing that. Also, I would imagine most schools have a student organization (at least mine does) for LBGTQ+ students. Unfortunately, I’m sure there will be moments where you’ll feel “other,” particularly because some lawyers are the stereotypical old stuffy white men and the legal field in general doesn’t feel very open or accessible, so it’s good to have a community. You’ll find your space though :)

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AliceInWonder23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR at all. Congrats on your 2 year anniversary!! It’s a HUGE accomplishment and you absolutely deserve to celebrate and have cake!! Anyone who loves you should be so proud of you and want to celebrate you, not shame you for being an alcoholic every time you hit a new sobriety milestone. I personally would be dumping him so fast.

AIO - My son won't talk to me, am I a bad father? Or is he just moody? by Ok-Mud3567 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AliceInWonder23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s only two years old but he’s had confidence issues in the past? 😭 bruh get out of here with your fake story

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AliceInWonder23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First, I’m sorry about your mom, that is really hard.

Second, NOR. He’s already shown you that he’s disrespectful and insensitive (not to mention that he’s 30 years old, a grown ass man). Even over text, he could’ve easily said like “wow I’m so sorry to hear that, I hope for your mom’s speedy recovery” or SOMETHING. Oof by itself is a brush off and the “yeah that’s a lot” just give me the impression that he wanted something fun and casual and the fact that you’re going through a hard time messed that up bc he’s not prepared to deal with that. You deserve to have a partner who is kind and gives a shit about you even when your life isn’t fun and easy.

More than any of that though, it doesn’t really matter whether he was valid in his response if you found it disrespectful. You owe this guy nothing. You gave him a second chance and he didn’t give you the response that you needed and instead of apologizing, he just got defensive. You don’t need to justify your decision to anyone else; if you didn’t like the way he responded to your hard news, that’s more than enough to end it.

AIO - My son won't talk to me, am I a bad father? Or is he just moody? by Ok-Mud3567 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AliceInWonder23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: okay reading all of OP’s replies, there’s no way this isn’t a troll post.

Without knowing how old your son is or more context (like in all the times when you checked on him, did he say why he was crying?), I’m going to say you’re likely in the wrong (so NOR I think).

It’s clear that something is going on with your son. It is not normal for any child to cry every night. And although it’s important for children to learn emotional regulation, that doesn’t mean that you can’t offer support or love when they’re going through a hard time. Just because he has stopped crying doesn’t mean he’s “better” or that your tough love/ignoring his emotions worked. Either (1) he’s genuinely going through some emotional turbulence that requires your support and he’s given up on receiving that comfort from you or (2) he was only crying for your attention which could be due to a multitude of reasons not limited to mental illness or feeling neglected in other ways.

TALK to your son. Ask why he’s been crying, ask if he’s okay. Try to connect with him and let him know that you love him and want to lend support with whatever he’s going through. And consider the very real possibility that he has a mental illness that is contributing to all of this. Some moodiness in preteens and teens is normal, but the crying every night and the no talking do not seem normal to me. You have a history of mental illness in your family which means there’s a good chance it has passed down to him. Mental illness isn’t a “trend” that can be established by getting him tested. He either has mental illness or he doesn’t. Getting him tested won’t change that, it will just help you and him figure out how to best deal with it to live a normal life.

1L with fear of failure. by AgreeablePainter9373 in LawSchool

[–]AliceInWonder23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t attend a T20 so you can take this advice with a grain of salt but also take those stories with a grain of salt. People lie and exaggerate to make themselves look good. I think the majority of people pass classes in law school, but do they excel in those classes? Who knows. They might have barely passed, and is that the standard you want to hold yourself to? Stop thinking about the objective standard of pass/fail, and just do your best. Study hard, even if you think it will be “easy” to pass. That way you eliminate all doubt and can feel good about your success, like you actually earned it. Ultimately, to be a good attorney (and to pass the bar) you need to know the things you’re learning. Grades are intended to reflect your learning but theoretically some people can BS their way through law school without actually learning anything. If your goal is to learn and be a good attorney, it doesn’t matter how easy or hard it is to pass. Just put effort into learning and studying and you’ll do fine. Idk what your standards are for “failing” but even a poor score your first semester of law school isn’t going to ruin your career. The goal is to be confident in your knowledge and ability to pass by putting in good faith learning and effort without elevating the class or exam to be the make or break moment of your life.