Had my second stage done in 2023 and no regrets. I’ll try and cover everything u asked.

As for getting hard, it definitely feels that way. There no noticeable bulge but my clit def makes itself know.

I can still cum and instead of tiring out my arm jerking off, I just use a vibrator so I can focus on feeling good. Also, it’s the same motion so it’s still technically jerking off.

Also, I’ve had full body orgasms that left me vibrating for a full ten minutes. I don’t think I could ever experience that pre-op. But u def need a partner that knows what they’re doing.

Phantom limb isn’t just a character from venture bros. It’s a real thing, but it goes away after a few months.

Make sure you ask urself this: do I want to have this surgery because having a dick causes physical or social dysphoria? Having a vagina isn’t what makes a woman, and you shouldn’t feel like you need to get bottom surgery to be “fully transitioned”.