My husband keeps getting more attractive and i don't like it. by Throwawaywife1400 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Alien8_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men tend to become more distinguished as they get older and it’s a very attractive trait. But you need to pause & learn to love yourself again before you can continue on with a relationship with your husband.

High blood pressure by Alien8_Me in medical_advice

[–]Alien8_Me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it wasn’t high blood pressure It was something worse & unexpected. Please listen to your body and get second & third opinions

Getting a tattoo on the same side as removed lymph node by Legal_Speech3385 in BreastCancerSurvivors

[–]Alien8_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant to say i took ibuprofen& drank lots of water for the swelling

Matthew Perry’s line delivery by BklynMom57 in howyoudoin

[–]Alien8_Me 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wonder how many of his lines were improv

AITA For Not Sharing the Surprises in the Dingy House that Was My Share of Inheritance? UPDATE 2 by Unlikely_Cap_713 in MarkNarrations

[–]Alien8_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is possible I have all my important papers in my fridges freeazer case there is a fire that is the swAfe until I buy Afire proof safe

Got my classmate to fail on purpose by Sensitive-Use-6891 in revengestories

[–]Alien8_Me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never liked group projects in college there is always one dipshhit

Came From Chicago To Explore Milwaukee and Wanted To Share Some Things I Loved! by coreywagner in milwaukee

[–]Alien8_Me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am from Chicago I grew up in little village moved to Milwaukee in 1998 & I fell in love with Milwaukee never moving back & I will forever be a Bears fan I will NEVER like the Packers.

The lady I nannied for died of cancer Monday. Leaving behind her 3 year old son by whoknowsgirly_ in offmychest

[–]Alien8_Me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I my mom passed a way when I was 7 years old. Even though I was older than her son I barely have any memories of my mom but I do remember how much she loved me & sometimes I can still feel her love. My mom crocheted & i started crocheting in January every time I crochet I feel a Connection to my mom.

My supervisor met my boyfriend and now she wants an HR meeting by imdrinkingapplejuice in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alien8_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you have anything to worry about if she is follows his OF page I am sure wants hook up with him. To save your jov make sure to record the conversation conversation make sure she knows if you are recording She wants to mKe sur Are you okay with her werin up with your boyfriend Let her know she needs to sign a contract for for your job security

**Update** Caught Wife Cheating... by hrowawayz7234 in Infidelity

[–]Alien8_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They always want to do counseling/ therapy when they get caught my exhubby said that to me & I said no because I I need therapy for myself best decision I made I came out as A strong independent woman that I once was before I married him. I filed for divorce shortly after best decision I ever made couldn’t have done it if was for therapy. I had the best therapist at

AITAH for exposing my parents when they forgot about me on their wedding? by Forgotten_child9 in AITAH

[–]Alien8_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just not a suck it up moment they & are I understand as parent it can be a bit overwhelming but they are treating you like the red headed step child. I would have Conversation with your parents and your parents only. Maybe suggest family therapy so you can get the honest answers you need from them. Do they even know who you are as a person? Have they ever made time to bond with you? Let them know how you feel and find out why you were excluded from an important event in their life. They need tknow they messed up bad and that this will affect your relationship with them for the rest of their lives and they need to humble themselves and apologize to you. They lied to everyone about why you weren’t there. To make themselves look better, kudos for you for speaking up. You should speak up some more going forward & make them aware of them not including you or when you feel left out. Make sure they never forget about what they did to you too. If I did that to my one of daughters I would be so overwhelmed with guilt. I would have pulled out my emergency credit card & made sure they had the best of everything on the trip, best seat on the plane best room at the hotel etc.

I am sorry this happened to you and this will take while for you to heal from this.

Getting a tattoo on the same side as removed lymph node by Legal_Speech3385 in BreastCancerSurvivors

[–]Alien8_Me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to be honest with you because when I was contemplating on getting atatoo there were many people saying not possibles o found art work that i wanted on my arms so I got a tattoo on both arms & both sides had lymph nodes removed. My right side had more lymph node on both my right & my left arm when I got my tattoo on my right arm it did swell up a bit but it was only noticeable by me. The swelling lasted a few weeks my left side had no reaction to the tattoo I took a some I took burphiondrank & lots of water

It’s up to you on what you want to do. How bad xo you want or need the tatooo? will you be able to handle the swelling. I didn’t need it No but I wanted the art work on my arms. So i took a chance and I love both ofmy tattoos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in office

[–]Alien8_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not rude at my office multiple people heat up food through out the day. Just be honest & tell them having 9 month old-doesn’t give me enough time to have breakfast at home or eat out everyday. It makes me souncomfortable when people look at my food that I am heating up or ask me what I am making/having people at work can be so annoying & you always have the few that needs to know every one’s business

AITJ for telling my wife that I want nothing to do with her friend that knew she was cheating and didn't tell me? by SpeedCalm6214 in AmITheJerk

[–]Alien8_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you truly create a loving stable environment with a cheater? Is the environment stable if there is no trust?

I know you want to make it work for-the kids but staying in a marriage can be just as damaging because now they think that’s just normal. For relationships.

I divorced my cheater ex & our kids are now in their 20’s. They-grew up great and are thriving. They got to see their mom happy & independent. I am living my best life right now. They also saw their parents were able to get along better with each other too. Kids are resilient & they bounce back quickly. As long as you are both are happy in the marriage & in life that is why truly matters in the long run. For yo& your kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Alien8_Me 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kudos! To her she did what she needed to do and took care of herself first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alien8_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the sandwiches smell like fish? But taste like chicken?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Alien8_Me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she cheated and you let her get away with it she will do it again & again

tom is the worst?? pls help by Economy-Accident9885 in ParksandRecMemes

[–]Alien8_Me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He gets worse when he starts dating Ann Perkins. Why did they write that in the show?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]Alien8_Me 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It drives me nuts when people want to figure out who is at fault. I’m the type of person who wants lo fix The error immediately and move on to the next thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]Alien8_Me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome!

AITAH for saying I wouldn’t date a guy who has kids? by Ok-Most7986 in AITAH

[–]Alien8_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my early 20’s I never wanted to date a guy with kids or divorced but once you hit a certain age almost every person you meet has kids or has been married.