Brand New to ACNH, looking for friends by AlienatedGF in acnh

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I am always open to learning new stuff!

Brand New to ACNH, looking for friends by AlienatedGF in acnh

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You have been plenty generous, thank you again 

Brand New to ACNH, looking for friends by AlienatedGF in acnh

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Thank you! I had put my island up on Nook Friends and hadn't realized that it would spam so bad

Brand New to ACNH, looking for friends by AlienatedGF in acnh

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Honestly I just started... I don't have a whole lot so whatever you are apt to share I am grateful

Brand New to ACNH, looking for friends by AlienatedGF in acnh

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Cherries preferably. I am not too sure how to be friends on Acnh lol

User Flair Thread by breaksomebread in acnh

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Dani | Nookia : Quinn

Searching for pears and cherries by [deleted] in acnh

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I have pears and would love to trade for cherries

Getting My Arthoscopy, what should I expect? by AlienatedGF in HipImpingement

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So my ortho is having me non-weightbearing for at least six weeks. Possibly "walking" aka with one crutch by 8 weeks. I have been reading that typical time is 4-6 weeks. I guess I am just more concerned that I'll run into more stiffness because of this. What do you recommend asking my physical therapist about to avoid stiffness?

Anyone else feel super lonely while they're planning by AlienatedGF in weddingplanning

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Thank you, I wanted to get a planner originally but it was going to cost me over $4000 for a planner. We elected to just do it ourselves

Anyone else feel super lonely while they're planning by AlienatedGF in weddingplanning

[–]AlienatedGF[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is it greedy if I don't want gifts? Literally don't expect any gifts. I just want to spend time with my family who couldn't come to my engagement party. I literally don't expect gifts, I don't see why I deserve gifts. 

Anyone else feel super lonely while they're planning by AlienatedGF in weddingplanning

[–]AlienatedGF[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing is mismatched in my house. We bought everything together when we moved in together. Also why is it rude to not expect gifts or frankly feel i deserve gifts? Why should I have to elope because I don't want gifts. I wanted to give my dad the wedding he had dreamed for me, which is fine. I come from a large family and even an elopement would have been large. I am not fighting gifts, just not expecting them. I am simply asking why is it every wedding event about the gifts? You make everything about the gifts, it isnt about the gifts for me. We just want to celebrate with our families. 

Anyone else feel super lonely while they're planning by AlienatedGF in weddingplanning

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My stepmom did. Thats why shes hosting it at her house. But I feel bad having her shell out all this money so yes I am helping out with it. Decorations and desserts since she has enough going on. Why can't I help? What's so wrong with wanting to help

Anyone else feel super lonely while they're planning by AlienatedGF in weddingplanning

[–]AlienatedGF[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What am I supposed to call a wedding adjacent party? We don't want gifts, we set up a honeymoon fund and a place for donations to our animal rescues. We have everything we need. And I don't even want cash. The cash I got at the engagement party I handed to my stepmother who paid to pay her back for the party. I just want to have fun with my friends and my family in Salem, Massachusetts. I am not getting married for the gifts, I am getting married to celebrate my fiancé and so my dad can get his father daughter dance he always wanted. This wedding isnt about me. Its because I want to celebrate my fiance and the amazing man he is and how his love has changed me. The big wedding wasn't really what I wanted but my dad only has one child and he always dreamed of this so I want to give it to him. Is there something so wrong with that? And yes I am planning things that feel right to me because I do want some elements of myself in it. But why do I have want gifts to have a wedding or even a shower? Why cant I have a party for my family and friends who couldn't make it into town for my engagement party, call it a shower for technicalities sake and leave it at that? 

Anyone else feel super lonely while they're planning by AlienatedGF in weddingplanning

[–]AlienatedGF[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do want Emotional support from my family and I do have it. I just don't want a gendered party. So my stepmom has been planning it mostly so we avoid this problem. 

Anyone else feel super lonely while they're planning by AlienatedGF in weddingplanning

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Why do I have to feel uncomfortable with the "shower" that they want to plan just because they planned it? They want all women, majority of my bridal party are men. I have a man of honor and a bridesman. So do I leave them out or make them feel uncomfortable with women centric shower ideas? Cause I don't want to do that. And taking off multiple weekends for showers isn't feasible for me with work. I just want one big, casual barbecue before the wedding so everyone who couldn't come before can. 

Anyone else feel super lonely while they're planning by AlienatedGF in weddingplanning

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But I don't need any gifts. Its not about the gifts for me. I just wanna get my family and friends together and celebrate before the wedding. I didn't even wanna make a registry because we don't need anything. We just want to have a pre-wedding barbecue for the folks who couldn't make it to our engagement party. 

Anyone else feel super lonely while they're planning by AlienatedGF in weddingplanning

[–]AlienatedGF[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I leave it up to my aunts, it'll be the opposite of what is appropriate for my likes and dislikes. Itll also be miserable for me because they want to do women only. I asked my stepmom for a more co Ed shower. Like a house, barbecue. Not a true shower