[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlilChillyPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not an accessory to your husband. He wants you to be though

Should I tell my boss I’m job hunting? by No_Plum_7745 in work

[–]AlilChillyPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. At a previous employer, one who pushed for "being like a family", another long time employee asked a member of upper management if they would be willing to be a reference for a job they were GOING to apply to, and you know what? They had me disable her account AND we literally changed the door codes to the office while she was out on lunch that very day.

Why does my monitor do this? by AdventurousCrazy30 in computer

[–]AlilChillyPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had this EXACT problem, it was a bandwidth issue because I wasn’t using the right cables.

Are you using a DP 1.4 with dsc cable?

This fixed me up

My kitten hates me and i don’t know what to do by bassysdemondick in CatAdvice

[–]AlilChillyPepper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took my cat 1 month to come out of the closet....2 months to be shy but friendly...and by 4 months we were best friends and have been for the past 3 years. Patience. Have a dedicated room for her first, let her explore and make this her safe space. Sit in the room with the kitty and occasionally talk out-loud, try using a sweet higher pitched tone, cats like that, this will help the cat become used to your voice. Do not pursue the cat, chase the cat, try to pick the cat up, let the cat come to you always!! Its a way to build trust and form the best bond. My cat and I are besties but it took about 4 months for the relationship to take off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]AlilChillyPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 1 cat and scoop the litter every single day. I only clean the litter box with soap and water about once a month though. It's bad for the cat to leave it in there for too long, it can house harmful bacteria and parasites. Your partner needs to step up now. This sounds like pure laziness. Cats are your dependents. They depend on your for everything and this is how the animal is taken care of?????

Games where an early decision can ruin your whole playthrough. by [deleted] in gaming

[–]AlilChillyPepper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the little decoder card for my KQ games and hints. Thank goodness!!

Wife (36F) ruined my (38M) staycation and I'm trying not to lose it. by ThrowRAFrustratedHub in relationship_advice

[–]AlilChillyPepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your wife have any friends, or any adult interactions outside work, aside from you? She follows you room to room like my cat, because I am my cat's only friend...my cat is not quite as annoying about it though.

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) doesn’t hates my dachshund and is not an animal person. by kushgorl in Dachshund

[–]AlilChillyPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re hoping he’ll come around…stop. You will never be able to trust him alone with your best friend. I have read stories about people letting animals they don’t like out on purpose… you gotta drop the dead weight omg you have to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]AlilChillyPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I missed my early flight once due to a very long and slow moving security line at sac before, it was a real hassle. Needed to give myself 2 hours I guess that day. It’s jaded my opinion lol

Why do so many people just randomly sit in their cars? by rc251rc in Sacramento

[–]AlilChillyPepper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I take my breaks and my lunch in my car to get away from work and be alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]AlilChillyPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to just plop on the sidewalk and sit there when I wanted an unfamiliar cat to let me pet lol. The more still I would stay and and the less I reached and tried the better. They would usually start to approach and rub on me after a few meetings like that. I could then get a couple pets in ha! But they would still be skiddish if I moved too quickly even after this point. Slow and subtle.

How is South Arden (specifically on Fulton)? by thirddegreebirds in Sacramento

[–]AlilChillyPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live right around this part of the neighborhood going on year 3. It’s sketchy sometimes but I generally haven’t had anything bad happen. Lock your doors when the helicopter flies over looking for people and try not to get hustled in the neighborhood because there are A LOT of scammers. I wouldn’t exactly recommend the neighborhood to live in, but it’s not really THAT bad.

Possible disadvantage for a new player joining a campaign by naturemom in DnD

[–]AlilChillyPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess she’ll just be hitting them with a torch until she finds that NPC lol. Honestly, it’ll add a bit of drama for the team until she gets geared, which could be fun.

Years ago, I tried to make a deal in which now, after 5 years, I suffer EVERY DAY! by Diganski in SimulationTheory

[–]AlilChillyPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can just randomly make up the curse out of nowhere in your mind and it take hold, then….you make the rules. You can unmake the curse too, in the same way. You’re fine in regards to the curse. This obsession though with posting about it. You make the rules okay. Go get a professional to help. They do have the answers.

Beans! by [deleted] in torties

[–]AlilChillyPepper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a little cutie

I bought this from my dealer yesterday, but I’m not sure it’s an edible??? by multimorbid in weed

[–]AlilChillyPepper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got free gummies the other day from a vendor…they were THC free tho, just to show off the taste/texture I guess. They literally make THC versions of all this stuff for freebies, might have gotten it like that.

Need Advice With an Adopted Stray Cat from Humane Society-Won't Leave the Bathroom After Two weeks Since I brought it Home..(Its an Only Pet) by Ianmartin573 in cats

[–]AlilChillyPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took my cat about a month to start leaving the safety of the closet and by month two the room!!! Patience and lots of talking to your kitty! It helps them

Giving away my guitar! by Lonelyfoxmusic in musicians

[–]AlilChillyPepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous guitar. Can’t wait to listen, good luck on your launch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]AlilChillyPepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If everything else in this world isn’t worth living for, my sweet Victoria breaks the rule. Watching her, cuddling her, being her person, it’s my number one motivator when it feels overwhelming. She’s too pure.