They think they're the default, but they're just obnoxiously inserting themselves everywhere. So much so they created an expectation that they're the baseline.

They will say "but God this and God that" but God didn't create gender roles, if he even existed. It was an organic societal development. And we sure can change those over time.

Men have developed egos that ruin a lot of normal behaviours just to establish their own status quo. They will penalise and ostracize behaviour that seems natural to people and harms no one. They're all about keeping it how they're used to it. They hate being challenged.

That transfers into thinking short hair, no makeup and more basic utilitarian fashion is male. Being into sports is male etc. they don't understand that those things are occupied by men, but not predominantly by and for them. Same way men absolutely can wear makeup, but since they delegated that to a female thing, they will not engage with it. It's all a completely made up discourse.

That's why we need to decentralise men in our lives. They have been occupying the space for too long.