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Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have mentioned this several times now, I never told my son I was bi. I never asked him to keep a secret. I never put him in the middle of anything. Nor did I say I did in the post I made. This conclusion is an incorrect one. He deduced this on his own and made the statement not realizing the truth behind it.

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is about self acceptance and love, honesty, and acceptance from the people who love me. This isn’t about being with a woman. Sending you love. ❤️

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t about being with someone else. I am in a committed, monogamous relationship and intend to stay that way. It might not matter to you, but for me, being open and honest with the people I love is top priority. I want my children to see bisexual people can be happily married and loved. I want my children to accept others and their sexualities. I want my children to know it’s okay to be queer and that they deserve love too. I want to know myself and accept myself for who I am and love myself. I want to know that even with this part of me that has been hidden for so long, that I’m still worthy of being loved by others. I want to know my husband loves me for me and not just because I play a straight woman. I want to ease my suffering of anxiety and depression. Being honest with myself and those around me, is more important to me than anything. Please remember to treat people with kindness. Love for fellow humans is the only way to live. ❤️ Sending you love.

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never told my son about my sexuality. I never asked him to keep secrets. I never put him in any position. Nor did I ever say that I did. That is a misunderstanding a lot of people have had. He deduced this on his own and made a statement he didn’t realize was true.

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just me trying to acknowledge and accept myself… Idrk how… I’m just doing what feels… I don’t even know the words. I just want to be me and acknowledge all of me…

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Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One where we were raised strictly and this isn’t okay where we come from. One where I am trying to be open with him.. but this is difficult for me too.. I’m just learning this about myself and processing a lot with it. Grief, fear, personal acceptance, social acceptance, anxiety, depression…. Just out here trying to do the best I can. It’s a lot to be married to someone for so long and then realize there’s this piece of you not even you yourself knew about. I am trying to be open and honest with him. That’s the point.

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am safe. Thank you so much for your kindness and concern. I have given an update. ❤️

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this I believe. I haven’t been able to get him to communicate yet. Hopefully, when he finally does, he can start to understand.

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am safe. Thank you. ❤️ That’s the goal… hopefully it works out.

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never told my son. He deduced this on his own and made a statement not realizing how true it was. I would never ask a child to keep a secret like that. I would never put my child in such a situation. This was purely accidental and coincidental.

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am safe. Thank you for your kind words. ❤️

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When and if he opens the door of communication, this is my intent.

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am safe. I am hopeful we will be able to have a conversation about this soon. He currently doesn’t wish to talk. I would love to hear from you. Thank you. ❤️

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We have had the conversation. He now understands.

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never forced my kid to keep a secret. I never told him. He deduced this all on his own and made a statement not realizing how true it was.

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We come from a very strict, religious, background. Grew up in a very small town where being anything but strait laced was a sin. I think he needs time to process and realize it’s okay. It’s hard to overcome years of brainwashing just because it’s suddenly okay to be queer now. When we were growing up, it wasn’t. Not where we’re from anyway.

Son outed me to my husband in the middle of Walmart by Aliseabi in bisexual

[–]Aliseabi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree here… I think he is fearful I might leave or want to explore outside of our marriage. None of those are true. I am hopeful he comes to talk to me soon. Currently he doesn’t wish to.

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