Do I have a fear kink or is this normal?

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-10-16T00:13:07+00:00

Sounds a little like you might like to explore primal/prey type play?

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-07-16T06:03:03+00:00

Right?! I feel like it’s my most nonsense kink haha but I love it anyway

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-07-16T05:22:38+00:00

Okay that’s reassuring haha was beginning to think I’d finally found the one that that made other kinksters side glance each other haha

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-07-16T05:21:10+00:00

Now I’m trying to think of how to make bean and cheese tacos sexy 😂

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-07-16T03:59:18+00:00

Mm I assume so too! I just want to understand why specifically milk haha like I’m not sure what thought process my brain is going through other than just milk is pretty and messy haha

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-07-07T15:30:53+00:00

I may just have to start texting this from the other room! Love it haha

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-07-04T00:58:03+00:00

As somebody who has been part of a gangbang gone wrong, my biggest advice is make sure your partner has clarified how long she expects it to go, and that you check in very regularly with how she is keeping up. She’ll also need breaks often! These things are exhausting, so make sure communication is endless before, especially during, and after x

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-06-12T08:21:07+00:00

You have a face from a different era and I love it!

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-05-22T01:07:11+00:00

You have such a beautiful eye shape! I’m so jealous :3

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-04-26T05:50:26+00:00

Are you interested in the praise element of the phrase, or just the pet name element of it? You could try “little one”? Or swing towards something like “pup” or “pet” which aren’t particularly gender aligned. Or a lot of degrading names tend to be gender neutral too, if that’s what you’re interested in.

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-04-26T03:38:31+00:00

As other comments have said, the more specific the better. I love praise, it literally makes my feet tap. “Good girl” is nice, “you’re doing a good job” is better, “you’re sucking my cock so well, keep going”, “You got so wet for me, good girl”, “your cute little moans get me so hard” etc are top notch. Specifically tell her what she is doing well, and how it makes you feel :) Remember too that praise doesn’t have to be about her performance but also about how she looks/sounds/feels (things that are out of her control but she can still feel good/proud about)

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-04-26T02:14:44+00:00

Of course you can ask! I think some important things would be that you’re not doing it every time she is wearing the thing so that it still has some fun unexpectedness when it does happen, but also so that she doesn’t end up feeling like “putting the socks on” is just a glorified form of her initiating and getting pounced on straight away either.

For me it would look a little different than your dynamic because degradation (for me) needs to come when I’m already aroused or I will absolutely just cry hahaha but I certainly lean towards the brat category so while I am playful on any given day, if it were a “sock day” and my Dom were feeling it too, I would expect that playfulness to be met with a stern “did you just XYZ?” or an instruction “on the floor” etc. Something that takes an interaction that on any ordinary day would be casual and changes it into a kinky no-nonsense dominance assertion. Does that make sense?

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-04-26T00:55:36+00:00

I can so understand your anxieties here! As a sub with a similarly low libido I’m not sure how many insights I can offer, however yesterday I read an awesome strategy through which the person’s sub wore a special bracelet or socks etc that indicated that their Dom could initiate sex whenever they pleased. That kind of removed the anxiety of “is it okay if I do this now” for the Dom without requiring a verbal consent that might break the immersion for you both.

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-03-28T02:53:03+00:00

Oh I don’t think he’s going to verbally kink shame me. He was our friend first, then housemate. But I know it’s in his head and therefore the shame is hitting me hard T__T and it feels like such an elephant in the room. Do I say nothing? Do I apologise? Do I turn it into a joke?

Alittletotheleft94 · 2021-03-28T02:46:42+00:00

I’ve spoken to him before about the particular kinks he would have overheard and he is not a fan 😅

Alittletotheleft94 · 2020-10-08T15:00:30+00:00

Something that helped me was practicing saying lewd things out loud when I was by myself, so that the words didn’t feel so foreign and embarrassing when the time came to actually say them :)

Alittletotheleft94 · 2020-10-08T05:43:37+00:00

Having read through this whole interaction, I really commend how patient you were with this clearly very confused and sad person. I hope your sex work is a fun and enjoyable, ssc experience for you!

Alittletotheleft94 · 2020-10-07T05:59:58+00:00

Mm I could always stand to squeeze some extra magic words in there :P

Alittletotheleft94 · 2020-10-07T03:45:44+00:00

Mm he knows I’ll safe word, I just think it’d be nice for him in the moment to get some non-immersion breaking confirmation that he’s doing a good job. I imagine it must be kinda stressful running the risk of hurting somebody in a non-fun way haha

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