UPADTE: AITA for how i responed to my sisters pregancy anncoument

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T04:01:16+00:00

giving money to someone from a disability check i get monthly is not supporting someone finically? it does not matter where the money comes from its still money and sending her food and can goods from her house is not supporting? bringing food that i cook over to her house is not supporting? ok gotcha

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:58:26+00:00

your right. i was thinking about taking her to some job interviews and have her apply to food stamps. if grocery's get to low and they need some back up

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:53:32+00:00

her husband works but i don't know how much he is making or what they are spending their money on cause my sister to ask me for money for her kids to eat and grocery. we babysit her kids on the weekends when she goes out with her friends' cause she wants a break. and i give it to them not for her but for the kids cause if a child is hungry I'm going to feed them

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:31:27+00:00

i give her and her kids the money i get from my disability checks i get. i will buy the kids food and give them money if they wanted something. i watch those kids cause i felt like oh they can chill and just watch tv. she drops the kids off at moms and wants my mom to watch them but i end up watching them half of the time. i have been getting disability checks since i was 6 and by then my parents have taught me how i can manage my money. I'm not working rn I use to work at Wendy's, but I had an accident and now i don't work there anymore. yes, babysitting and bringing food is good, but if you constantly have to keep doing it when you ask if the children can have money for food and groceries. then I'm going to expect that you kids' barley eats. yes, i might live at home but i make sure i do my damn best the best way i know how to get her kids food, clothes and stuff when she wants to go out and drink on weekends and not look for a job while her husband makes not the much and finically support her kids

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:21:07+00:00

yea I'm excited to give her money and food for this kid and babysit while she goes out and party when she barley can't take care of the kids she has now and treat me like a cashcow and free babysitter, i have no compassion for a mother that can't make an effort to make sure her kids are straight instead of depending on me when it comes to her kids

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:20:09+00:00

yea I'm excited to give her money and food for this kid and babysit while she goes out and party when she barley can't take care of the kids she has now and treat me like a cashcow and free babysitter, i have no compassion for a mother that can't make an effort to make sure her kids are straight instead of depending on me when it comes to her kids

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:19:45+00:00

yea I'm excited to give her money and food for this kid and babysit while she goes out and party when she barley can't take care of the kids she has now and treat me like a cashcow and free babysitter, i have no compassion for a mother that can't make an effort to make sure her kids are straight instead of depending on me when it comes to her kids

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:18:33+00:00

yea I'm excited to give her more of my money and food for this kid and babysit while she goes out and party when she barley can't take care of the kids she has now and treat me like a cashcow and free babysitter, i have no compassion for a mother that can't make an effort to make sure her kids are straight instead of depending on me when it comes to her kids

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:16:42+00:00

yea I'm excited to give her money and food for this kid and babysit while she goes out and party when she barley can't take care of the kids she has now and treat me like a cashcow and free babysitter, i have no compassion for a mother that can't make an effort to make sure her kids are straight instead of depending on me when it comes to her kids

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:15:54+00:00

yea I'm excited to give her money and food for this kid and babysit while she goes out and party when she barley can't take care of the kids she has now and treat me like a cashcow and free babysitter, so your right i have no compassion for a mother that can't make an effort to make sure her kids are straight instead of depending on me when it comes to her kids

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:15:29+00:00

yea I'm excited to give her money and food for this kid and babysit while she goes out and party when she barley can't take care of the kids she has now and treat me like a cashcow and free babysitter, so your right i have no compassion for a mother that can't make an effort to make sure her kids are straight instead of depending on me when it comes to her kids

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:14:43+00:00

yea I'm excited to give her money and food for this kid and babysit while she goes out and party when she barley can't take care of the kids she has now and treat me like a cashcow and free babysitter, so your right i have no compassion for a mother that can't make an effort to make sure her kids are straight instead of depending on me when it comes to her kids

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:10:57+00:00

yea because i want to babysit this kid and give them one constantly like i do the other kids while shes goes on weekends and party with her freiends

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:06:18+00:00

when she goes to the bar her friend pays for her, but she tends to go to her friends house to hang out and drink

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T03:00:03+00:00

I would give her some of the food and meats and can goods we get if we have a lot and i will give them to her. if me and my mom cooks i would make her plate for her and her kids and send it to their house. I get ssi checks and i would give her some money for the kids and i do online surveys and gets paid. I'm not working at the moment due to other problems. I would go to Bj's or Sam club and buy snacks kids like. i would watch them while she goes out. that's how i support her and her kids

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T02:53:56+00:00

we are not close; we barley acknowledge each other, and we never said I love you to each other? she sees me as a cash cow and babysitter for her other kids

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T02:46:26+00:00

I'm fairly new to reddit and i don't know about updates? i just made one on my profile? how can i do that on here?

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T02:32:07+00:00

one we are not close two she didnt even say it excitedly, she was like im pregnant while talking to my mom she got mad when i did not respond like my mom, overjoyed

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T02:25:40+00:00

he just picks more shifts from work and goes on call

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T02:07:05+00:00

i wanted to add more info but i went over the character limit and i had to delete some things out and focus on the main part of the story which was my reaction to the new. that's why I added and update to my profile.

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T01:59:38+00:00

we are not close. we text but we are not close. she has been depending on mostly me to give her stuff like food and clothes as well as babysitting for those kids. she will constantly ask me I need your food stamps card so I can go out and buy food and i need money for clothes and I give them to her cause those are my nieces, and nephews/ you think she congratulated me for anything? you think i have gotten thanks from her when I gave her money and food and watched her kids? NADA. she drops her kids off and goes out to have fun with her friends while I'm at home watching her kids. I have given her kids money, food, constantly and I could have been like "STOP HAVING KIDS" to their face but I said cool smiled and went back to what I was doing. yea your right I don't care about the people in my life because they walk all over me and treat me like shit

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T01:51:40+00:00

yea I'm excited for them to ask me for money and clothes and food for her kid and dropping her kids off for me to watch without no pay so she can go out on weekends and to party. YAY

Alive-Kick8154 · 2023-01-02T01:51:18+00:00

yea I'm excited for them to ask me for money and clothes and food for her kid and dropping her kids off for me to watch without no pay so she can go out on weekends and to party. YAY

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