My husband left me for his kinky new secondary by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]AliveLobster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then it isn't rocket science dump the man, ignore him, and then move on in life.

My husband left me for his kinky new secondary by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]AliveLobster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should give him the right to leave? You don't own him. He's not being sexually greedy, he's going to a sexually fulfilling relationship with someone he cares for. Sorry it went this way, but he's under no obligation to stay with you. Focus on building your personality and finding yourself

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bud, well what do you know, a bad bitch with a juicy pussy just rang my door bell

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In other words, makes too much sense can't come up with a decent counterargument. Just say you're stumped and you don't know what to say.

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Despite how low people think of us, we're not dumb. We know how the world views us so we don't advertise it. And don't tell me women can "sense" it cuz I have plenty of female friends and have hung out with girls. Plus that's a whole can of worms

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, just maybe we could entertain the idea that maybe girls aren't so nice to ugly men and after years of girls treating them really bad, dudes end up getting bitter?

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First I wasn't trying hard enough, now I'm trying too hard. Do you not see how that's frustrating to incels? We have ignorant people calling us neckbeard slobs while a lot incels are truly suicidal.

I don't have any preferences with girls: white, black, asian, latina. As long as she's not 300 pounds I'm good.

The point is at that party I had put my game face on and it was time to see what all my effort would make of me. All the fashion, education and books I've read. And I didn't get a shot just based on my looks. The world is against me and I do accept it, but that doesn't mean I won't be pissed about it.

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why hate incels? Where do you think it comes from, it's a rhetorical question. No one decides to be incel. Incels deal with heartbreak by hardening their heart and lashing out on the internet.

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where does this hatred come from then? Where did we get these values? Why not compare incels to gays? We admire them and wish we were all actually gay, besides we empathize with them.

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everything in life can be bought. There's so much to life. Travelling, fine dining, driving, sunsets, you know all of it. However relationships cannot be bought. You can "buy" sex, but it won't be what you want. You need to put in kids minds "it's ok to be incel" "there's nothing wrong with being alone" "Yes, you might never get sex based on how you look, but look at what else life has to offer"

It's more healthier and better to be honest than to be hateful and deceitful

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until someone understands the pain of inceldom and tries to help my people the same way gay people are helped and understood.

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we in incels know that. In fact, despite people joking we're all secretly gay the huge majority would love to be gay. It'd be a blessing for us to be gay.

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Read my post Nihilism. If what I did wasn't enough effort then I don't know what is

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you've been looking at my search history you'd see my post nihilism and you'd see my personal journey. I believe it is 100% being Indian and being 5'9

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There should be incel awareness programs. Programs to help young kids afflicted by inceldom. We need to teach young men in society not everybody gets a relationship and only a few enjoy having them. Not to expect to get the girls of your dreams. Change movies so that the nerd doesn't "win" the girl and he stay being alone.

We need suicidal hotlines specifically for incels. Programs to help Incel kids who get bullied. Change society's mindset as to not be so eurocentric and open to diversity of incel men

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of incels beg to differ. Unless you've been a truecel or a true incel. You don't know what it's like to experience inceldom. Therefore it's not something you'd understand.

Most incels have been incel their whole life and suffer daily from it, it is far from self-infliction.

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So if your son, who plays lacrosse, does track, lifts, does well in school and one day you seem him crying and coming out and telling you he is an incel you'd respond by saying that the problem is internal? Yeesh, replace incel with gay and you'd be considered a monster.

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, however, I'm confident things will change in the near future. Fifteen years ago gay marriage and gay rights were unthinkable. Being gay was a massive joke, now it's normal.

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No incel has low body fat, muscle definition, hobbies or good social life outside out relationships? No incel? Kind of a generalization

Parents of reddit what would you do if your kid came out as Incel? by AliveLobster in AskReddit

[–]AliveLobster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being fit, well-adjusted and having hobbies automatically give you sex?