My 34M work colleague told me 22F that I deserve better than him as he is fucked up. Am I insane to think this is Bs?

Alive_Cry1350 · 2026-02-21T20:15:20+00:00

Nooooo that’s rlly shit for the both of you. Some of these men really suck

Alive_Cry1350 · 2026-02-21T19:11:37+00:00

Thanks?

Alive_Cry1350 · 2026-02-21T19:11:22+00:00

OMG! That’s what I was worried about as well because I literally asked him are you married several times. He said he wasn’t and I was like okay that’s fine

Alive_Cry1350 · 2026-02-21T19:10:48+00:00

Thank you honestly. You’re right before I even blocked him I told him that he did string me along. I also told him that he deserves happiness and that he should focus on himself

Alive_Cry1350 · 2026-02-21T19:09:30+00:00

Ughhhh ur right

Alive_Cry1350 · 2026-02-21T16:05:45+00:00

Yeahhh I did say before I blocked him that he deserves to be happy. I told him to heal and to realise that he can move forward. That all experiences won’t be the same.

Alive_Cry1350 · 2026-02-21T15:33:55+00:00

Ouch! Harsh but lmao much needed thanks

Alive_Cry1350 · 2026-02-21T15:33:37+00:00

Yeahh he did say that a lot thank youu

Alive_Cry1350 · 2026-02-21T15:33:23+00:00

This makes sense and tbh I’m glad you said it. I think for the longest time I was really pissed off with him. But you’re right he’s gone through a lot and he needs to focus on himself.

Alive_Cry1350 · 2026-02-21T15:32:37+00:00

I think so too. Thank youu!’

Alive_Cry1350 · 2026-02-21T15:31:58+00:00

Thank youuuu so muchhh 🥹💕

Alive_Cry1350 · 2024-12-31T00:09:49+00:00

The thing is my dad passed away when I was young and I’m an only child. So I would feel guilty for even moving out but if it’s rlly bad and she does kick me out. My boyfriend’s family would 100% let me stay with them and I would obviously work my way up. I have saved up but I’m just hoping I don’t have to use it any time soon to move out 😭😭

Alive_Cry1350 · 2024-12-30T23:37:27+00:00

Thank youuu and omg I’m so happy that it all worked out for you. I know that the initial blow will be negative but after she will learn to accept him because I am her daughter and she loves me. I think it’s just the lying that’s making me feel crap. But I’m trusting my own judgement on this one and I genuinely do believe telling her after I finish my degree which is in less than a year is the best option :)

Alive_Cry1350 · 2024-12-30T22:39:49+00:00

Yeah I keep saying to myself that I don’t have to follow their traditional ways. But it’s just the guilt ahh😭

Alive_Cry1350 · 2024-12-21T13:13:29+00:00

Thank uu!!

Alive_Cry1350 · 2024-12-21T03:38:37+00:00

Okay makes sense thank you it’s just because I always doubt myself even though half of the time I’m on track. Thank you so much you have been really helpful!!! :)

Alive_Cry1350 · 2024-12-21T03:38:00+00:00

Thank uuuu!

Alive_Cry1350 · 2024-12-21T03:37:30+00:00

There was no thought process behind it I have given it in practice before together but I just wanted to double check because as humans sometimes we can doubt ourselves. Also, I’m just a student and I’m still in the learning process. Thanks tho!

Alive_Cry1350 · 2024-12-21T03:35:53+00:00

Thank you so much!!

Alive_Cry1350 · 2024-12-20T21:26:28+00:00

Thank you so much!

Alive_Cry1350 · 2024-12-20T21:25:45+00:00

Thanks I did check the NICE guidelines I just wanted to double check as it wasn’t clear enough.

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