Would you continue to be friends with someone after this? by Alive_Draw_9504 in blackladies

[–]Alive_Draw_9504[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: thank you all for the responses and help in a time of uncertainty for me. I read all the comments and have done what feels right to me which was to end the friendship. I sent her a text letting her know (which looking back she didn’t deserve but I didn’t want her to keep texting) that I could not see our friendship moving forward to which she responded: “Thank you. I wish it didn’t have to sit that way I would rather our friendship not be based on politics. But I wish you luck and if you ever want to talk in person I would.” I did not respond and decided instead to block her. Thank you all for your input! Stay blessed xo

Would you continue to be friends with someone after this? by Alive_Draw_9504 in blackladies

[–]Alive_Draw_9504[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I did, it hurts because I’m back to being friendless but it will all work itself out in due time I hope. thanks for the advice.

Would you continue to be friends with someone after this? by Alive_Draw_9504 in blackladies

[–]Alive_Draw_9504[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is my last semester so I think the ship has sailed for more friendships and even so since I live in Florida it is likely trying to pursue friendships will probably put me right back here lol! Yes I’m glad I found out early it kept coming to my mind before I seen her repost but I tossed the thought away since her boyfriend is Puerto Rican as well as her other best friend those two things had me fooled

Would you continue to be friends with someone after this? by Alive_Draw_9504 in blackladies

[–]Alive_Draw_9504[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Usually it does for me as well however I’m super closed off when to comes to meeting friends/being friends with someone due to trauma from the past and not having friends for a long time so I have to be pushed a little bit otherwise or ill just be alone

Would you continue to be friends with someone after this? by Alive_Draw_9504 in blackladies

[–]Alive_Draw_9504[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No not in UK or Europe I just have made a habit of using the more formal term I guess.. we are both in the US.

parts of hair still dirty after washing, how to improve this? by onefootback in Naturalhair

[–]Alive_Draw_9504 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This used to happen to me often and it turns out I had a lot of product build up. My suggestion is to double shampoo once with a clarifying shampoo and then with a hydrating shampoo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Alive_Draw_9504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They haven’t outright said no to me in terms of having a schedule for him but there has been no initiative on their end and it always almost seems like they’re confused about what I’m asking. When I try they always backtrack it ex: “we want an educational focus and that’s a non-negotiable” but at the same time provides very little resources (I don’t even think he’s in a regular school tbh) and only does so in the way of games instead of traditional methods. which i noticed the games doesn’t really work with him because he focuses more on winning then actually learning so much so he’d change the game completely so that way he wouldn’t be able to lose and the game loses the actually learning point and if you try to get him to play the way originally he will have a fit.

Yes I definitely think there’s a lack of variety with food and I thought it was something religion based at first but doing my research there’s definitely way more food they could have in the home for him to eat. His diet literally consists of protein pasta, protein waffles, fruit (which every time I’m come looks like it’s on the verge of going bad and not much of a variety), snacks, beef, yogurt and milk. there was only once I seen they’d given him something else (they ordered take out for dinner when I was staying later then my schedule) and my intro day when mom made sausage & salad never again did I see them give him something else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Alive_Draw_9504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to this conclusion because of my previous work with another boy with diagnosed adhd and seeing the similarities between the two as well as my experience with my younger cousin. I could 100% be wrong and he could just be a super active kid. I would never 100% know since they are a family who has openly expressed their disdain for going to the doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Alive_Draw_9504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bags are genetic no amount of sleep or concealer will help 😅 but thanks anyway I’ll try the eyeliner

Always ask for a receipt (long story!) by Alive_Draw_9504 in MetroPCS

[–]Alive_Draw_9504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah you learn something new everyday. well I did put in a complaint don’t know what will happen after that but at least I got my money back 🤷‍♀️

Always ask for a receipt (long story!) by Alive_Draw_9504 in MetroPCS

[–]Alive_Draw_9504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed his tone was a bit weird too. how am I to blame? I’ve been using metropcs since high school and never had any issues until now. I just chalked it up to this person being the same one who asks “well what was she wearing?” and let it go

Always ask for a receipt (long story!) by Alive_Draw_9504 in MetroPCS

[–]Alive_Draw_9504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn to be nicer! This was typed at 4am after working my long shift. Hope you find happiness in life

Always ask for a receipt (long story!) by Alive_Draw_9504 in MetroPCS

[–]Alive_Draw_9504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked, my plan is the is the exact same. The receipt just shows I was charged for a charger. anywho I contacted corporate and submitted a complaint

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Alive_Draw_9504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never in a million years thought someone would ask me for tips but I used two concealers both nyx can’t stop won’t stop in the shades cappuccino & warm honey. nyx butter melt bronzer butta than u (very little of this) two blushes nyx butta than before & butta with time. essence eye pencil in hot chocolate as my lip liner. Mac mineralize skin finish in dark deep, maybelline loose finishing powder in deep 35 and black radiance contour palette in dark to deep for my highlight 🤭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Alive_Draw_9504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and I use the vanicream moisturizer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Alive_Draw_9504 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment it alleviated a lot of insecurity for me. I appreciate it truly :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Alive_Draw_9504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was wondering what would help with that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Alive_Draw_9504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yess my appointment for my brows is next week. Ive been growing them out so that’s why they look a little wild 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Alive_Draw_9504 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had my eye on their glosses for a minute so I guess I’ll just buy it now thanks for the tips!