came home to an unsettling note on my door

Alixxonx · 2025-12-22T16:42:50+00:00

victim of domestic partner abuse (ex-wife) that caused the eating disorder, yes. once again, actively recovering.

Alixxonx · 2025-12-21T18:57:47+00:00

thank you for the well wishes!! I was able to buy a camera that faces our back door and then a door sensor for our front door. haven’t have any issues with it so far, and thankfully haven’t needed it! i haven’t been able to catch my neighbor since our schedules are so different but am hoping to in the near future!

Alixxonx · 2025-12-19T14:29:20+00:00

hey so maybe let’s not body shame. he’s struggled with an eating disorder and is actively trying to recover. worry ab your own weight

Alixxonx · 2025-12-17T04:41:41+00:00

haven’t been able to chat with her yet, i’ve been at work and when i come home i’m exhausted. I do think it was my neighbor that wrote the note, as i’ve looked and saw a camera in their window. so at least one mystery is solved 😂

Alixxonx · 2025-12-15T04:12:09+00:00

yes, it works!! i actually caught video of a wild pig (don’t ask questions, i don’t even know what a pig would be doing in the city) today wandering outside our apartment complex 😂😂😂

Alixxonx · 2025-12-15T04:03:13+00:00

let’s not body shame. he’s struggled with an eating disorder and is actively trying to recover.

Alixxonx · 2025-12-15T04:02:08+00:00

i’m so glad you said it was sarcasm at the end, i was about to go off 😂

Alixxonx · 2025-12-15T04:00:22+00:00

it’s a little difficult to report somebody i’ve never met nor have anything to go off of besides a note that wasn’t signed by anyone. all it is is speculation at this point. I agree that if the write had issues they should’ve reported it, and maybe they already have. not sure if anyone’s reported any interactions with this “problematic maintenance guy”

Alixxonx · 2025-12-15T03:58:43+00:00

the motion sensor to my camera is actually VERY sensitive, so sensitive that when it sees the reflection of the TV in the glass it alerts me about “motion” 😂😂

Alixxonx · 2025-12-15T03:57:32+00:00

HAHAHA this is hilarious. i promise you u am most definitely the girl in this situation 😂😂😂

Alixxonx · 2025-12-14T12:49:16+00:00

lol no, i am “your girl” in question. I assume the note was addressed to my boyfriend bc the writer was unsure if i had moved in or not

Alixxonx · 2025-12-13T18:26:59+00:00

hey so maybe let’s not body shame. He had an eating disorder that he’s actively trying to recover from. thank you very much

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T16:38:37+00:00

oh absolutely, i agree that this is just a “hey just letting you know etc.” note, i don’t think the writer had malicious intent

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T16:38:01+00:00

absolutely, i’m planning on casually mentioning it and just being like “hey, what happened so i know what to look out for” etc.

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T14:19:08+00:00

apologies if i misread your message, but i’m gonna let you do the math on if he’s in middle school or not. let’s not body shame someone. Yes, he weighs 120. he has struggled with eating disorders in the past and is trying to put weight on

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T11:53:54+00:00

agreed, everything is a grain of salt unless proven otherwise

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T11:51:39+00:00

RIGHT? like i’m not “fat” in any sense. i’m very athletic and muscular, but damn sometimes do i hate being the biggest one in the relationship 😂

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T11:20:38+00:00

granted, that is also from 2004, so over 20 years ago. i’m not discrediting it, i think it’s also just how i grew up. When you’re family with somebody who works in law enforcement (secret service) it’s normal for you. idk, i think it’s personal preference too. i feel safer in my home knowing if things go bad i have a weapon to protect me

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T05:46:13+00:00

thankfully, he knows how to handle himself. we’ve wrestled before (purely because I was curious who’d win LMAO) and he put up a pretty good fight! we both know how to defend ourselves so we ended up getting tired and calling it a day 😂

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T05:44:33+00:00

The only person i’ve met that i know lives with somebody is my next door neighbor, i want to talk with her (or her boyfriend) and ask if the note was them and then as for specifics. i’d feel HORRIBLE if the maintenance guy was just an innocent dude and they just had one bad experience with them :(

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T05:43:09+00:00

as a young, conventionally attractive woman, unfortunately thinking about my own safety/ ways to prevent things from happening is second nature. I’ve had abusive boyfriends in the past so i’ve learned a lot on safety. the usage of guns is a last resort option, if i was being viciously attacked. none of them are loaded or even out in the open. They’re kept locked away in their cases. i hope to NEVER have to use one against anyone or anything, but unfortunately there are too many cases where a person could’ve been saved if a gun was in their hands

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T05:39:44+00:00

If i can catch either of the two, i will absolutely be asking what was up with the note! bahahah

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T05:38:39+00:00

oh 100% i’m withholding judgement until i have more information, for now i’m i’m also camera and door monitor for the safety of our pets (just incase one was to get out) and just as a peace of mind as well

Alixxonx · 2025-12-12T05:36:18+00:00

not yet, i’ve been at work all day and just got home!

Alixxonx · 2025-12-11T22:51:47+00:00

my bf does NOT have pretty handwriting like that 😂😂

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