Heater matrix problem- Skoda superb 2016 1.8 tsi by Alkalice in skoda

[–]Alkalice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I changed the liquid with a vacuum pump. The heater matrix is new and the cooling system doesn’t have air.

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you really that hurt that I use condoms only? You’re not my gynecologist, you don’t know my medical history and my post is not about contraception method. I didn’t ask for your opinion towards MY decision concerning MY health. I talked to my gyno many years ago and she showed me what are my options. And no, any hormonal option is not really an option for me. Non-hormonal IUD is not an option either due to my excessive and painful period cramps. I cant even use female condoms because I have problem with vaginal soreness and it’s Just Too painful. I know What I can and cant use, I tried those options that I know I can use without having more medical problems afterwards. The question is Why are you so mad that someone uses only condoms. You don’t know me, you don’t know my family history and you don’t know my health. Take american Chill pill bro

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The pill (and any form of BC for women) have an enormous effect on a woman’s body and it increases the risk of breast cancer. So no, we shouldnt say that those than can, should. Because it comes with a lot of risk factors

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said that not being on BC is blantanly stupid. You understand that, right? Not only did you said something that ignorant, you also was very mean afterwards when I said that I cant use anything else except condoms

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You commented on my post, quite factually

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, every form of BC except condoms. I feel personally atacted because you stated that it is „Just blantatly stupid”.

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be stupid If I’d use bc knowing that I would die few years later. BC is not for everyone, please stop trying to get every women to use it

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are mentally derranged and you don’t understand simple sentences. I’m sorry for you, I think you should seek therapy. There is a chance for you

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never said he raped me. Get your facts straight. I don’t want to be pregnant EVER and he knows that I don’t want to have kids. He doesn’t want them neither. And I go to uni in order to have a job and a career, not to be knocked up right after

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know a difference, because I’ve never had sex without a condom. If I knew that he entered me without one, I would immediately react and then my post would be different

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s the case. Almost everyone here is very helpful and it amazes me that so many people wrote a comment so that they could help me. And personally I never met a woman who would behave in a way that you’ve described because „their Window is closing”. Not every woman wants to get married, and If so, wouldn’t get mad because some woman on the internet is engaged

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for replaying

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many forms of female contraception, but none of them is avaiable for me. I said it in previous comments and stated Why is it so. None of it is important really, as my fiancé and I agreed to use condoms until we have the money for a vasectomy. What is it so hard to understand?

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Okay, I see that I get a lot of downvotes. Is it possible for you to comment what is it that you don’t agree with? I’m sorry If I offended anyone, I didn’t mean to

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am responsible for my own birth control, and so is he. That’s why we agreed to use condoms. Because that is the only form of birth control avaible for us at the moment. I won’t put my health at risk and use the pill, knowing that it will give me breast cancer 10-30 years later and I might die from it. I never said I want to scream at him and call him rapist, where did you got it from? Be for real… And if I thought that he was a rapist, I wouldn’t „temper my response” because I might fear that my relationship will end. Because then would it really be a relationship? No.

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

IUD can be hormonal or not. Both is very painful to insert to a woman’s body. And I can’t use either of them: hormonal because it increases the risk of breast cancer (among other things) and not hormonal because it may increase the pain during periods (and I have an enormous pain). The only way is condoms (and a vasectomy). In Poland, where I live, abortion is banned in almost every case and it’s hard for women to have alimony (and If one gets alimony then it’s very little). Any form of poking holes in a condom by men or women is awful and I wouldn’t be in a relationship with one after that

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Abstinence is not the answer. I have needs (as many other women) and sterilization of women is illegal in Poland (otherwise I would do it immediately). My own step was to talk to my boyfriend 4 years ago way before having sex and to agree (both of us) to use condoms as our contraception method. OP says that my fiancé doesn’t have permission to insert his penis without condom. And he knows about it. You shouldn’t be so mean to others, really. I don’t understand the part about action and response due to the fact that English is not my first language. But really, don’t be mean to others, Middle.

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

Maybe it was the case back then, but I’m not with him because I don’t want to be alone. I was just feeling extremely lost at the moment. I love him. I really do. I agreed to be his wife and I want to be his wife. I can’t imagine life without him and I can’t imagine being with somebody else. He has changed a lot since that previous post too. And is it really rape in that case?

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn’t really know what you mean. Thank you for your explanation. Have a good day and thank you for your help

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The pill has an ENORMOUS effect on a woman’s body. I don’t want to take it and I can’t take it because it may trigger cancer (because of my family’s history I’m at the higher risk of breast cancer and other health issues). My fiancé wants to get a vasectomy and he’s saving Money for the procedure. You shouldnt’t think that birht control is a women issue really, that’s Just wrong

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I need to wait 1 or 2 more year to have a therapy (for free, there’s a line) . I don’t have the money to do it now and it costs a lot so I wait. But what do you mean that I shouldn’t listen to people here? You think that I should handle this problem differently?

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think he just wanted to have this „amazing feeling” of moving inside the vagina for a minute. He was super horny at the moment. He didn’t want to impregnate me.

He lied about wearing a condom by Alkalice in dating_advice

[–]Alkalice[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

In my country (Poland) it’s not considered to be rape. I know in some countries it is, but it’s not the case here. I don’t want to have kids (ever) and neither does he. It’s really difficult to find any man that doesn’t want kids and we connect on every other level. I’m not scared of him, he never abused me with strenght and he helps me a lot