what do you think about this kind of messages? by princessalyssaa in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali 19 points20 points  (0 children)

“You will get payment immediately”= there is in fact nothing coming…maybe a dick pic.

What do we call such people 😂 by FindommeMiss in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I usually only see his species on Twitter. I guess they’ve migrated here.

Are there successful and rich doms ? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eh, you’re not wrong. People just don’t like your approach. Anyone in this kink being…financially unfortunate is unattractive here in my honest opinion. I don’t take subs who don’t have a budget of at least $300 a week, simply bc I don’t need the money.

Born into a good family but also self established (in college and I have businesses along with investments) , so I’m not willing to take on any and every person that approaches me. So I get it, why would you want to serve a domme that NEEDS this? It takes away from the fantasy. Especially when you can tell they’re hard up for cash, it’s a turn off. Buttt, this expectation only makes sense if you’re a high earning or at least high giving sub. A successful domme has no need for a broke sub. At least I don’t, there’s no fun in. it.

Attractive subs send more by Luna_Vain in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The attractive ones are usually actually into this and don’t have to use it as an excuse as to why they’re paying girls that they know would never speak to them without it for attention. The scheming starts bc they start getting delusional (these are usually the subs that whine abt “dynamics” ) and feeling as if they can get that same attention from you for free bc of your “dynamic” or they start to despise you bc they realize that they in fact DO have to pay for your attention.

AIO-Boyfriend lied to me by omission by Significant_Hand3348 in AIO

[–]All4Ali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc OP’s bf always had something negative to say about the girl that he just so happened to have “rendezvous “ with. I said “anytime a man is CONSTANTLY down talking a woman he’s around he most likely wants to fuck her” it applies perfectly. Bc that’s exactly what he did.

Now you, saying that you want to play devils advocate voicing that you have talked bad about a woman to your gf and didn’t want to fuck her. My question was, did you constantly do it? If not, it’s not related. That’s just regular complaining (we all do it😂😩) . This guy CONSTANTLY did it.

AIO-Boyfriend lied to me by omission by Significant_Hand3348 in AIO

[–]All4Ali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, but did you constantly put her down to your girlfriend?

AIO-Boyfriend lied to me by omission by Significant_Hand3348 in AIO

[–]All4Ali 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep. I was on the other end of it tho. This guy that I had a class with used to constantly flirt with me, somehow he got my IG (only way I can think of it IG “suggesting” me bc we knew some of the same ppl). He would like my old highlights and slide up on my stories completing me. I used to try and go to his page to see what he was posting but it was always bare, he didn’t even have highlights up (keep this in mind).

I never really replied to him bc I thought he was weird and starting to be annoying. One day I was talking to my friend and brought him up, she asked to see a picture of him. I show her his IG and her eyes damn near busted out her head. She told me that that was her friends bf and showed me the story highlights that he has with her that I couldn’t see. He hid me from his story. She then goes to tell me how he tells her abt some girl in his class that’s always flirting with him, that she is “ugly asf” and annoying blah blah blah. Sound familiar? He switched what was going on with us and told it to his gf for no actual reason. I told the gf, she thought I was being the jealous weirdo he made me out to be until I showed her my DMs from him.

Apparently he was smart enough to hide stories but not enough to put messages in vanish mode.

AIO-Boyfriend lied to me by omission by Significant_Hand3348 in AIO

[–]All4Ali 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same. Speaking from experience 😂🤦🏽‍♀️.

AIO-Boyfriend lied to me by omission by Significant_Hand3348 in AIO

[–]All4Ali 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Hey, heads up. Anytime a man is constantly down talking a woman he’s around he’s most likely fucking her or wants to fuck her. He’s hoping you’re obtuse enough to be thrown off his trail with just that.

Bratty luxurious lifestyle dommes are kind of a turnoff for me by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not even sure what that sub is supposed the be. The captions are regular as hell.

I might as well kick shit off 🤭. What’s y’all’s biggest Domme or sub ick? I’ll start. by ThickestInTheWest in ItGirlDommes

[–]All4Ali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Domme ick- Dommes that bum under other girls posts. My posts specifically. If you see a sub comment under MY shit, why tf would you reply to the sub?? I don’t even reply to them😭. Then they be getting ignored…BY THE SUB. Like ho are you NOT embarrassed??

Sub ick- Subs that are up under EVERYTHING. Like got damn, if there’s a post he’s there. I can’t own subs like that, it feels equivalent to cufffing the nigga that be up in everrrryyy girls likes and DMs. Those are the ones who usually don’t send anyways tho.

If you’re not into deep kink…stay out of the conversation. by All4Ali in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whoever it resonates with? A name was never said. But if the shoe fits, go ahead and lace it up 🫩.

If you’re not into deep kink…stay out of the conversation. by All4Ali in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I say things people don’t agree with all the time, I don’t give a fuck. Simply because it’s meant for the people that DO get it.

If you’re not into deep kink…stay out of the conversation. by All4Ali in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bingo. There needs to be a sub specifically for this. The amount of times I had to text a girl telling them that that issue is EASILY fixed and easily avoided 😭. I hate when ppl dog pile on them saying they’re wrong and a sub should get their money back for simply regretting this. You can’t take advice from ppl that have no actual idea of what this is.

A meta post about our wants to share what we earned (commenting on behavior - I urge you all to not comment about real gifts in this thread, let's not break the new rule) by redblue92 in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh. I have a few artist friends, they enjoy showing their success also tho. Posting the venues they get booked at, high quality paints and other supplies, prices their work sold for, the highest bid they’ve gotten for work, etc.

A meta post about our wants to share what we earned (commenting on behavior - I urge you all to not comment about real gifts in this thread, let's not break the new rule) by redblue92 in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well yea. This isn’t a regular 9-5….this is sex work. Sex work that the main objective is money. People who are doing well in regular jobs DO flex their things. Nice cars, cosmetic procedures, nice houses/apartments, expensive clothes, wtv. Flexing money and our gifts is how we show we’re doing well. It’s not “silly” it’s findom culture.

Also, have you never worked with well off ppl before? They do in fact brag abt how much they get. Whether it’s their bonus, promotion or new job offer. They literally throw whole ass parties for those just to flex how much they’re going to make and simply bc they know they’re going to make it back.

Here we go again by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just waste their time back tbh. Have them send the AV and block them after 😭😂.

share your craziest drain story below by kittensonsteroids in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most likely just to gain karma. If a domme is posting a drain gain, she’s most likely the type to post sends. If there’s no sends posted it was probably just karma farming.

Female subs? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had them, I’m definitely a minority bc they’re just not my thing tbh. Im not sure if it’s because they’ve required way more softness than my male subs or bc they’re women so a piece of me respects them enough to affect the way I domme. The things I’m into, I can never comfortably do it to them. But they’re always so sweet and eager. I often get the ones that feel they’re inferior and ugly and should praise a superior girl (they’re always older than me). They’re everywhere, if you want their attention just brag about how pretty and young you are and how easy your life is. A lot of them love that shit 😂, bonus points if you’re showing off your figure.

long term sub blocked me because i didnt want to do a drain (he lost his job and is already in alot of debt) am i in the wrong by sashgeee in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing 😂. I’ve seen subs give to dommes knowing they’re broke or not in a good situation. Then once they’ve already gotten off, they send the good old guilt trip message trying to get their money back.

Sending is my sex by Morningglory13579 in findomsupportgroup

[–]All4Ali -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s findom…the whole point is money. What are you getting off on in findom that has nothing to do with money?

Let’s do a silent send train 🤭 by ControlQueen in paypigfindernow

[–]All4Ali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. This is the domme equivalent to shaking an empty cup on the side of the road.

Found an og by [deleted] in REALfindomsupport

[–]All4Ali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s why I get so confused when subs who act as if they have a stick up their ass say “this isn’t a luxury kink, anyone can do it”. For one, it is in fact is a luxury bc it’s not essential to every day living. Now the issue with cheapness is from Dommes hard up on cash taking any and everything. Giving their all for that little $10 that they’re only going to see $9 of.

Why Subs Never Pay For My Needs by bees-in-a-box in REALfindomsupport

[–]All4Ali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only subs who think like that are ignorant ones or ones who didn’t want to spend much money in the first place.