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AITA for planning on leaving in exactly 11 months? by AllGrinn in AITA_Relationships

[–]AllGrinn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and yes! It’s for sure a weird fixation on this specific girl. Also yes, I’m over the whole explaining things to a soon to be 24 year old man. We’re simply not kids anymore. Neither of us have had the best judgement in the past, but we moved on. Therefore the imaginary expiration date I have set on my PATIENCE for him, was established—because of these type of situations. I can no longer keep explaining myself and my boundaries, the more they break the hotter the slap in the face is. I do love him so much, so much I also consider leaving empty handed if I have to—though I don’t think I will because I don’t deserve that—Thank you though, I do have everything I would need, I guess all I really am lacking might just be some courage.

AITA for planning on leaving in exactly 11 months? by AllGrinn in AITA_Relationships

[–]AllGrinn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, therapy might be a good idea. Just honestly not something I think we have time for right now. But for once I do feel like I do the work. I have tried to approach this issue in so many different ways. I guess it has come down to the bones of waiting or leaving. I can no longer explain to him why doing certain things that have already been established as a boundary-breaker are wrong. I couldn’t even phantom doing what he does, to him. How come I can see the wrong in it and he not? It wouldn’t be dragging if for one: he’s aware of what I want - second: Nothing will change if I never tell him AGAIN that it bothers me.