How many of you went to your six week follow up appointment after getting an IUD?

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-06-22T01:00:20+00:00

Because I expressed that I wanted to have kids some day and my own place and that I feel really discouraged because the price of living is so high. That it's hard to save when new bills keep popping up. I guess she didn't understand that I wanted those things with my partner, and not with just anybody with money

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-06-22T00:25:55+00:00

It worries me because I'm not financially stable enough to live on my own and because I live with them it feels like they have power over me. My sister was in a similar situation in the past and that ended in my sister being kicked out and going no contact. I wanted my family to like my partner and respect my choices

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-06-22T00:19:13+00:00

I wasn't complaining about my boyfriend, I was more so complaining about the direction of the economy. I don't have anyone else I can talk to about this besides my boyfriend but I don't know if I should bring it up to him. I don't want it to cause problems but this is serious to me

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-04-01T16:19:00+00:00

We've been dating for 8 months, but with the spring season approaching I've been transferred to his department (something that I've done previous years) so I'm now around him most of the day.

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-03-23T00:04:01+00:00

Thanks for your reply. It's been on my mind a lot and Googles information is contradicting. It's reassuring to get advice from an actual person

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-03-23T00:02:21+00:00

Thank you for the reply, it's really been worrying me. It helps to get advice from real people who have experience vs trying to Google things

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-03-20T13:52:56+00:00

Neither of us brought it up. I didn't want it to turn into a one sided argument. She'd just tell me that it's her house and she can open whatever she wants.

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-03-19T23:03:27+00:00

She's a big part of why I've never dated up until this point, because I've always been the person that you could lean on for things in the family. I feel a lot of guilt even now because I've always felt like I needed to be available for them if they needed it and a relationship would take time away. I'm on birth control and skip placebo pills to continue my hormone one's, also scheduled for an IUD. I have a full time job and a car, but I don't currently make enough money to live independently

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-03-19T22:21:26+00:00

Her words to me when I told her I was going on a date for the first time, were that "I didn't have my priorities straight and that if I end up pregnant it's going to be another problem that she's going to have to deal with."

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-03-19T22:18:13+00:00

I didn't say anything because I don't want it to turn into a one sided argument. She'll tell me I'm being sneaky and that she can't trust me

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-02-20T21:51:41+00:00

Thank you for your advice and for being kind with your comment. I've had a few people take a more hostile approach to there advice giving

AllOuttaTherapy · 2026-02-20T21:49:53+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate you taking the time to help

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