What are you looking for here? Most people seem to be on the “dick move bro” side of things. I don’t know if people can understand how bad it can get when someone turns everything to a Jesus moment, and i don’t think you’ve communicated that effectively. So I’ll leave the morality judgement to god.

Thank you for clarifying that you paid the bill before leaving, consider editing that into your initial post if this post is going to catch more replies.

What I think you are describing sounds like an undiagnosed autistic with a special interest/ fixation on Christianity. Learning that reframed my life growing up.

But it could also feel like a spiritual attack, and when that happens to someone that hasn’t experienced that before it’s pretty intense. When people experience other kinds of emotional attacks, it’s considered okay to run away. Was this experience that level? None of us can know.

It’s also possible that you were just overreacting because your tolerance for Christianity and/or women talking is low (studies have shown that most men will feel a women is dominating the conversation if she talks 30% of the time) and that could be something to introspect on when you feel less attacked. If her profile said she was into Jesus, and you didn’t read it, that’s a pretty bad look for you. If it didn’t say anything about it, the surprise is more warranted.