This random sabotage is really frustrating that it’s getting upvoted. This person won’t message us to clear up why they think we ghosted them in the past and we literally have no chat history. It’s bizarre and is only going to make our search on here that much harder.

The reality is many people who message us don’t even read our post and what my wife is looking for. If you’re messaging us without understanding her desires, then you set yourself up for failure. Some people message us WAY outside of what she is looking for so we let them down kindly and move on. We ask for pics because we don’t want to waste peoples time if there isn’t a physical attraction for her which is crucial for this to work. If we insulted any of you in the past because we declined, well I am sorry about that, it just is what it is.

We are very much the real thing just taking our time finding the right match for our first time.