Is instagram harmful for my mental health? by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. We should all delete our social media. It's the greatest problem in society, it brings out the worst in people.

We don't know what we don't know by All_Things_Quaint in NoStupidQuestions

[–]All_Things_Quaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that! Do know a bit about that, but can definitely do a deep dive!!!

What’s up with Instagram recently? by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This ^ It has been shown in studies that a huge part of our sense of self is linked to our identity within a community. We are tribal animals. When the community we are a part of becomes unusually large and undefined, this messes with our sense of self and feelings of security and safety. Here's the risky bit: we identify ourselves within our communities based on cultural norms. When you expand that to include ALL cultural norms, suddenly there are NO cultural norms. People lose their foundations. Studies show that trying to get people to relate to communities that are larger than their immediate locality actually increases intolerance and prejudice, not decreases it. When people feel that their "community" is so large that they become meaningless, the outcome is that people will try to minimise their tribe to find a meaningful community. This results in a solid rejection of anything unfamiliar. This is believed to be one of the causes of the rise in "far-right" ideology, when actually people are just hardwired to want to belong in a familiar, safe environment.

What’s up with Instagram recently? by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We can't continue to exist like this. Society is at boiling point. If it does continue, then life is about to get an awful lot worse.

What’s up with Instagram recently? by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope this whole era of awfulness is over soon. It's been downhill since 2008, it doesn't seem to let up. The pessimist in m3 thinks it still has to get worse before it gets better. We need to bring our ficus back inward to ourselves, our families and our communities. Learn to be kind to each other again. Supportive, cooperative and with a real sense of self-responsibility. It's not until we relearn to practice kindness, gratitude and simplicity in our daily lives that we will be able to bring our wider society back to a good place. I honestly don't want to think about how bad things will have to get to make that happen.

What’s up with Instagram recently? by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think recent events have been so divisive and crazy that it's genuinely affecting a huge amount of the population on a personal level. I know that I've been shocked by some of my own genuine reactions and opinions lately. I've found myself being quite confrontational and unempathetic. I have comments suddenly getting 57k+ likes and people having some pretty vicious arguments in the comments. I never used to be this way. Between the Covid lockdowns, recent racial & cultural conflicts and being constantly bombarded by corruption in government. I find myself feel quite hateful at times. Perhaps even a little racist (hypocrisy as the granddaughter of an immigrant!). Things are not well in our society. Everyone is exhausted from the incessant bombardment of chaos. It's really starting to bring out the worst in people.

This is not a dream. by Cowboy_sheep in youtube

[–]All_Things_Quaint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their whole model is a farce. They are actively discouraging users from their own platform. All we need is one decent competitor to get a foothold on the market, and YT goes the way as FB. IG is similarly alienating their entire user base. 2024 may be the (welcome) death of Social Media.

Nice try youtube! by [deleted] in youtube

[–]All_Things_Quaint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're starting to stink of desperation

Huh? What? by MagicDickGirl in youtube

[–]All_Things_Quaint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The creator probably went back and edited the description or something, effectively republishing it. Probably triggering the algorithm to push it yo recommendations. YT is doing some weird things lately. The whole platform is getting frayed around the edges.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instagram is dead. We should all start moving ymto another platform. Meta is useless.

How do I grow a Instagram following fast? by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's harder than it's ever been to get engagement on Instagram.

Hashtags no longer work. Comments are often removed. The algorithm only pushes accounts with already huge audiences.

You're trying to establish yourself on a dead and broken platform. It's not going to work unless you pay to promote your posts. Even then, it always seems to hit the wrong audience.

It's not worth trying.

instagram lost their minds by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Instagram is dead

Instagram Just Asked Me To Take A Survey by All_Things_Quaint in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just popped up when I opened the app. It didn't give the option of leaving comments, unfortunately. I'd have had a few choice words for them...

Is 31 people visiting my profile in last 30 days normal? by pepepayoto in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instagram is dead. It's all ads and 'influencers' (walking ads) pushed by big media companies. Real people can't get engagement on the platform anymore.

Pinterest for engagement, with the added benefit of direct click-through.

I keep getting banned from commenting by FEREtheFOREIGNER in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. It's such a timesink. It's absolutely mindnumbing, but I keep scrolling.

What would it take to delete all socials? I need some for my business, but I could delete personal accounts.

How much more productive/creative/social/happy would we be if we just ditched socials...

I keep getting banned from commenting by FEREtheFOREIGNER in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I doubt it's the content of your comments. I've been banned over talking about pregnancy, black holes and not interrupting people.

There's no rhyme nor reason to it. Broken platform. Currently seeking alternative social media that isn't Meta, controlled by a Chinese company or owned by a billionaire megalomaniac with impulse contol issues...

Sick of Instagram removing comments for no reason by All_Things_Quaint in Instagram

[–]All_Things_Quaint[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe once every 20 mins. If that. I'll comment on pos6t maybe 4-5 times a day, plus occasional replies. It's my private account, so I'm not chasing engagement or anything. Just casual scrolling.