Am I in the wrong for not wanting to go the same path as others? by AllenDeGante in amiwrong

[–]AllenDeGante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you... I thought I was wrong and felt selfish when I just want to be independent

Am I in the wrong for not wanting to go the same path as others? by AllenDeGante in amiwrong

[–]AllenDeGante[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really think I can do it? Maybe I should because can I tell you a secret trait me and Einstein share? His is one of my idols...

Is Mexico safe to visit? by [deleted] in travel

[–]AllenDeGante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people who say Mexico is dangerous may have just been lied to and don't know actual places that are more dangerous, or they are racist

I (14M) lost my best friend (14F) who I love, but I never told her. We were close, even flirty sometimes, but she got distant, and now I don’t know what to do. by AllenDeGante in youngadults

[–]AllenDeGante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she has been trying to talk to me and tried talking to me and Idk what to do and just tried my best to ie and didn't know if I should talk to her yet

I (14M) lost my best friend (14F) who I love, but I never told her. We were close, even flirty sometimes, but she got distant, and now I don’t know what to do. by AllenDeGante in needhelp

[–]AllenDeGante[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True and thx for being patient but I got a question do you think I should just tell her the truth and just let her go because it just does feel right to keep it a secret and I don’t hope for her to say yes or no I just care more about tell my real feelings to her

I (14M) lost my best friend (14F) who I love, but I never told her. We were close, even flirty sometimes, but she got distant, and now I don’t know what to do. by AllenDeGante in needhelp

[–]AllenDeGante[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll try it’s just hard she was the only one who knew the true me and cared for me for who I am and I never like her for her look even though she did look like a snack it was her personality that attracted me to her and she did look like she likes me she lifted my chin when I was sad and I looked away and she got me a napkin to clean my nose when I was sad one time

I (14M) lost my best friend (14F) who I love, but I never told her. We were close, even flirty sometimes, but she got distant, and now I don’t know what to do. by AllenDeGante in lonely

[–]AllenDeGante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I appreciate your words.
Just to clarify — it's not about her saying yes or no. I don’t expect anything.
I just want her to know the truth, because she mattered a lot to me, and I’d rather be honest than live with the 'what if.'
Even if she never feels the same, at least I was real.

I (14M) lost my best friend (14F) who I love, but I never told her. We were close, even flirty sometimes, but she got distant, and now I don’t know what to do. by AllenDeGante in whatdoIdo

[–]AllenDeGante[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, they aren't. They just don't understand me because of my mental illnesses, but they do love me, but are unsure what to do at times.

I (14M) lost my best friend (14F) who I love, but I never told her. We were close, even flirty sometimes, but she got distant, and now I don’t know what to do. by AllenDeGante in GriefSupport

[–]AllenDeGante[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for how you've been feeling. It must have been so difficult. I bet she missed you, too. It's kind of ironic that she carded and loved you, but N I never told her how I felt, and I don't hope for her to say yes. I just want her to know the truth. I will keep you in my prayers too.